Relationship Questions

[*~Trina~*]

i do forgive you...

all im saying is just dont rush into things because you are tired of being single. 

[Sis]

What you need is friends. A group to be with to relax with where someone will find the real you. When you're "looking" you're not being yourself. Join some church ministries.

Everyone I've known who has set out to "find a woman" has failed. It usually happens when you're not looking. When you're acting like your real self and relaxed.

[TRAV]

Try imitating anyone of these smileys:

:grin:

Each of those smileys represent a personality type - and THEY all have girls who like them, so there must be someone out there for you. Also, start finding good reasons to be single...HEY GUYS! Got any positives about being single? I'll start with one...


1. Being single saves you a lot of money. Your turn... 

 

[*~Trina~*]

What you need is friends. A group to be with to relax with where someone will find the real you. When you're "looking" you're not being yourself. Join some church ministries.

Everyone I've known who has set out to "find a woman" has failed. It usually happens when you're not looking. When you're acting like your real self and relaxed.

Amen!!! 

[Cody P]

I know I need to join some ministires however I dont have much time to join any b/c I work alot. and there isnt any in my church.

[newkris]

cheaper to be single, really, trav?  hhhmmm . . . .  

[WhySoSerious]

Hello I am new here, but i have some advice to give. I too am single I have tried to look for someone always to go away empty handed. However, I took a cna class and I did not go there to look for a date. Coming to the end of the course two of the girls in my class were interested in me and i just being myself and not looking for a girl. Point is as others have stated don't go looking for someone just get out and socialize and met people. I know that sometimes in certian areas there are little to no choices with churches with single people but if you get the chance go to single events and special services and meet people.

[WhySoSerious]

And also if you wanted to enroll in Bible college in am sure you find a girl there easliy

[Cody P]

Im going to take some of this advice. However starting bible college would be hard for me b/c of my current job.

[Sis]

And also if you wanted to enroll in Bible college in am sure you find a girl there easliy

  To the nuthouse!

Im going to take some of this advice. However starting bible college would be hard for me b/c of my current job.

You would give up on school because of your present job? Not a good idea. Get all the education you can. Actually, you should be concentrating on that this time of your life rather than trying to settle down.

[Cody P]

I know and I have prayed to God about me enrolling in a bible college or any kind of college and I dont feel like thats what God wants me to do right now.

[Newsman]

Cody,

   Being still a huge guy, despite losing weight, and having been a huge guy all my life, I won't lie to you. Being huge won't help a guy with the women.

   However, that said, your avatar pic doesn't look like that of a huge guy.

   Also, even a huge guy like myself can get dates, and there's nothing that says a big guy can't get a nice/great-looking/whatever the adjective is of the type of woman he is looking for.

   At our radio stations Christmas party last month, I had a drop-dead gorgeous And NICE Lady who immediately agreed to go with me to it when I asked her.

   Don't be arrogant, but don't count yourself out, either.

   Good luck!


John 

[Cody P]

Thanks John thats very comforting. May I ask you if your radio station has a website?

[Backseat Radio]

Bible college may not be the place for you but getting some kind of advanced education is always a good idea while your still young.  In reality its preparing yourself to be able to better care for the special lady you seek.

[Cody P]

I know how to take care of girls. I have dated before just not girls who are apostolic / pentecostal.

[Newsman]

www.mcalesterradio.com


John 

[Cody P]

Thats cool.

[Sis]

I know how to take care of girls. I have dated before just not girls who are apostolic / pentecostal.

She means take care of them by having a good job and keeping the lights, gas and water on.

[RainbowJingles]

I donno. It just seems coming in here looking for women, and going to dating sites sounds desperate to me. Relax. Go out and find a way to meet people in real life.

ummm...  so joining Apostolic Singles Network was a desperate thing for me to do?   

[Sis]

I donno. It just seems coming in here looking for women, and going to dating sites sounds desperate to me. Relax. Go out and find a way to meet people in real life.

ummm...  so joining Apostolic Singles Network was a desperate thing for me to do?   

Depends on why one is doing it. If you're just looking for new friends, as most do,  it's fine. But if you're looking to hook up with someone, like a life partner, it looks desperate. And it usually shows by your posts which camp you're coming from.

[RainbowJingles]

lol  now THAT was a nice political answer fer sher!  lol

[Cody P]

I dont think there is anything awrong with joining a christian singles website. What would be the differece between joining one of them and going to a singles confrence?

[zizi90]

I believe in spousal predestination! If you pray for it sincerely God will work together your life, and the life of your future spouse, perfectly.

Check back with me in a year or so for the testimony. 

[InChristGirl]

I for one will be very interested in hearing that testimony

[zizi90]

I for one will be very interested in hearing that testimony

Oh..I'm sure it's coming along....

....course....I never said whether it would be my testimony or not...although that will be coming too.