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Started by SippinTea, July 08, 2008, 10:17:14 PM

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Brother Dad

Quote from: Sister_Mom on July 10, 2008, 02:34:00 PM
I think forgiveness is important, but I believe it is secondary to putting the other person first.
And Sister Mom lives by this. 

Melody

I was talking to someone today about marriage...  I thought I'd add it in here.

If we are marrying the right person and for the right reasons, it is good to do some reading up on personalities and love languages.  Guaranteed, your spouse has a different if not opposite personality as you.  This will work your last livin' nerve unless you understand better, (and even then your nerve just needs to pray through) 

If God put you 2 together, it is to make you both well rounded and fuller people.  That means when he is being logical and you are being emotional, he's not being annoying or uncompassionate.  He is presenting what YOU need to overcome the current dilema.  If or when he needs physical attention and you need conversation, it's an opportunity for you to REALLY love/respect him the way we are called to love each other.  And visa versa.  Your spouse is and should be -your closest minister. When it seems you are giving more, it's because he/she needs it more at that time.  You can't out give God and your marriage is unto God, a blessed and ordained union.  Your first calling as a child of God is to your family, when you strive to fulfill this, God returns abundantly.   

Sis

Mellow! Where have you been?  Been missing you around here.

SippinTea

"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

Brother Dad

I always feel Sister Mom is giving more to me than I am to her.  She treats me so good.  I thank God for giving me such an awesome woman.

Sister_Mom

Quote from: Brother Dad on October 02, 2008, 03:03:00 PM
I always feel Sister Mom is giving more to me than I am to her.  She treats me so good.  I thank God for giving me such an awesome woman.

I'm glad you feel that way because you deserve that kind of treatment because you are such a good man. I couldn't have possibly asked for anyone as wonderful as you because you are far more wonderful than my imagination would have allowed and I thank God for thinking that I could make a good wife for you and I thank Him for allowing me to have you.
God determines who walks into your life....it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.


mesipie

awww...yall are soo sweet
its mesi: mee see...not messy

messaypah to only a certain few...lol...

savedbygrace

the world needs more happy marriages... :clap2:

Brother Dad

People need God in their marriages

angelofthe_lordz

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Today my mom and dad renewed their wedding vows for their 25th Wedding Anniversary. They are still in love as much as day 1.!! They have a wonderful marriage.

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MelodyB

Have you slapped that one dude from Indiana with a pie in the face today?
 

Brother Dad

Congratulations to the Happy Couple.

heartbroken7982

I Agree you need to forgive each other or anyone. i know i have problem forgiving sometimes when things happen over again. i would like everyone to please pray for me that i can forgive like god wants me to.

Sis

Quote from: heartbroken7982 on December 11, 2009, 04:03:20 PM
I Agree you need to forgive each other or anyone. i know i have problem forgiving sometimes when things happen over again. i would like everyone to please pray for me that i can forgive like god wants me to.

You're not alone there. I think we all run into that, especially when things happen over and over. It kind of beats you down after awhile.

heartbroken7982

Yeah And I Want To Be Better At Forgiving.