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What Attracted Him to Me?

Started by RainbowJingles, February 04, 2009, 08:04:05 PM

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Newsman

Umm, Lady Chel? In the stereotypical measurements ascribed to females, I don't think the 36" refers to the ummm... waist..


John  :waving:

RainbowJingles

Hate to break it to ya, John, but it SHOULD.  lol

And Chel and I aren't stereotypical.

*breaks the mold*

:chairspinud:

SippinTea

:spitlaugh: :laughhard: Oh. My. Word. That was hilarious!

:beret:
"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

Nerd


The Purple Fuzzy

Quote from: Newsman on March 26, 2009, 02:43:54 PM
Umm, Lady Chel? In the stereotypical measurements ascribed to females, I don't think the 36" refers to the ummm... waist..


John  :waving:
The way they wear their skirts so low on their hips now, it might...

Sis

36"?  Is that how far away a guy has to be from you or you won't talk to him?

SippinTea

No, no, Sis. He has to be WITHIN 36 inches, or she won't talk to him. *grin*

:beret:
"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

iridiscente

Though she wouldn't have a problem being heard if he happened to be farther away :P

RainbowJingles

lol  Dina

It's okay.  When we met, I was in full clown personnae and get-up.  He is aware that I can be loud, crazy and totally outta control!  :-)

:chairspinud:

Quote from: Sis on March 26, 2009, 05:57:43 PM
36"?  Is that how far away a guy has to be from you or you won't talk to him?

Noooooooo!  That's the farthest distance away that I want him to be!  :cloud9:

Sis

Well, if he's seen you at your loudest and silliest and likes you anyway, he must like you, all of you!

RainbowJingles


Amelia Bedelia

LOL@the sizing
36 inches is more than half my height... lol


Sis

:laughat:  Never thought of it as vertical!  :laughhard:

BeccaBoo



Do Justly, Love Mercy, Walk Humbly. Micah 6:8

Kloey

Interesting read.  I think it holds true that confidence is attractive. 
I am activated to pursue His kingdom, not for what it is, but for the absence found within.

RainbowJingles

Interesting read, indeed.  *sigh*

Several fun moments, but it's difficult to read and remember how twitterpated I was and how painful twitterpation can become if nothing comes of the twitterpation.

But such is life, I guess.

I stand (err...  type) before you with confidence today...  and I look to the woodwork.  lol  I'm slowly beginning to feel good about myself again, and who knows what may happen now?

SippinTea

"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

1legRooster

Hey, I just saw this post, and figured I would add my own two cents.  There is something about a woman who is self secure.  It shows in posture, and her walk, and her conversation.  And it definitely can turn a guy's head.

It is not all about appearance, but in ones security in who they are.  When a person is timid and down on themselves, it comes over, even if they are trying to appear otherwise.

When I think of the ladies that I have been attracted too, they all have had a certain confidence or self security that is intriguing.  And I have had a number of ladies that have liked me that I found ...... no interest in, and they all were more timid or insecure...  I know it is easier said then done, but there is definitely something appealing to a secure woman.

The early bird get's the worm, but who wants to eat a worm.

RainbowJingles

**HUGS** Ruby
Thanks, girlie!  :-)

Jonathan: Thanks for the two cents.  :-)  Do you need any change?  :hypocrite:

Seriously, what you said makes a lot of sense.  I find the same to be true of guys that I've been intrigued by through the years, as well.  The more self-confidence (not the egotistical kind) a guy has, the more I feel drawn to him.

I heard something on the radio the other day that just kind made me pause and ponder.  It was something to the effect that, when a guy stops being strong and starts giving in all the time (I think he was speaking in context of relationships), he ceases to be masculine in the eyes of a woman.  I remember that happening a few times.  When a guy didn't like to make any decisions about anything, and constantly deferred to me, it made me want to just scream and run away.  I love it when a guy takes initiative and makes decisions, or at least has options that he wants input on.  I love making decisions together, but I hate it when he has no opinion and makes me feel like the "boss" in the relationship.  That's just not what I want.  I want a man who is a leader.

/end rant

lol

Sis

I've had that happen with friends. It made me want to scream even then. Can't stand someone who is afraid to tell anyone their opinion.... EVER.  Always giving in means they're afraid to say. Afraid they will lose a friend. Afraid someone will get mad at them. It's sad, really.

sunlight

What an interesting reread... wow, it's been forever... :grin:
  :attackhug: Be full of hugs!