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What Attracted Him to Me?

Started by RainbowJingles, February 04, 2009, 08:04:05 PM

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CDAGeek

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guys are attracted to what they can't have
Some, maybe, not all. Some of us couldn't care less about the chase, but rather finding the one God has intended for us - flaws, imperfections, and all.

Sis

Men, like women, are all individuals. Some flatterers, some outright liars, some users, some sincere but don't click with ya, some self-haters, some kind, quiet and not really looking. There are so many more. I think I have dated at least one of each of these types in my lifetime.

Thank you, Jesus, for Stevebert!

SippinTea

Quote from: Sis on February 05, 2009, 04:09:16 AM
It's when you are thinking that way someone will win your heart.  I remember this ice maiden.......................

If you mean this Ice Maiden... I don't think I ever had the view Mary just described.

:beret:
"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

Sis

I meant when you're not looking it will sneak up on you.

Desperate women rarely find happiness. They might find a guy but not what they're looking for. They settle. Women who are LOOKING, are in the same boat.

Just like an Ice Maiden (I didn't say who hmmmmmmm) we heard of once. She wasn't looking. She was just trusting God from day to day and WHAMO! And it weren't a frisbee, either!

SippinTea

"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

iridiscente

Quote from: RainbowJingles on February 05, 2009, 01:48:13 AM
*scary flash of insight*

Okay...  It just crossed my mind that many times I would notice a guy that I found particularly appealing, but immediately think, "He would never be interested in ME."  And so I acted accordingly, steering clear of him, and rarely speaking to him.

:roll:  And I wondered why guys that I was interested in didn't reciprocate my feelings.  *smacks self in head*
Ohhh... I have a really bad problem with that. Not so much since I'm married and don't have to worry about romance, but the feeling inferior always makes me super sarcastic so they'll run away... muahahahaha.

RainbowJingles

So THAT's what you were trying to do in OK?  Chase us all away?  :eyebrow:

Chseeads

Quote from: SippinTea on February 05, 2009, 01:37:05 AM
QuoteWhat Attracted Him to Me?

Past life:


And that conversation you tried to have regarding me in a swimsuit? You're lucky I didn't deck you.)


Present life:


But he doesn't think I'm his free ticket into anything, he's not concerned with how much money I make, he's never treated me like a doormat, and he's never tried to have a conversation that made me want to punch him. :o

Notice that she didn't specify that present life hadn't talked about her in a swimsuit....just said that whatever it was he said hadn't made her want to punch him.....

:hypocrite:

SippinTea

"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

MelodyB

Have you slapped that one dude from Indiana with a pie in the face today?
 

Sis

Quote from: iridiscente on February 05, 2009, 05:30:03 AM
Ohhh... I have a really bad problem with that. Not so much since I'm married and don't have to worry about romance, but the feeling inferior always makes me super sarcastic so they'll run away... muahahahaha.

You don't have to worry about romance? Does that mean you have lots? Or does it mean you don't need it now you're married?  :couch:

nwlife

As I got to tell a friend, and no I won't say her name!!! (yes I know her name! :roll:  )

Just think of all the colors of the rainbow, think of all the jewels of each color, Imagine piles of each jewel as far as the eye can see.  Their combined value is still nothing compared to a Lady of God in step with God's Presense!
Only through faith in the Grace of God through Jesus Christ am I saved. No other means and no other actions changes the predestination of my soul.

UPDATE:  I finally did find my wife.  Just waiting now to bring her to the USA!

RainbowJingles

You know, that is how I feel right now: in step with God's presence.  Really.  It's as if I am walking side by side with Him in my journey.  If my heart is broken, He will be there to pick up the pieces and fill me with His joy.  If it's not broken, He will be the joy that fills my heart.  Either way, if I walk with HIM, I win.

*contented sigh*





:chairspin:

iridiscente

Quote from: RainbowJingles on February 05, 2009, 06:53:42 AM
So THAT's what you were trying to do in OK?  Chase us all away?  :eyebrow:
Ha. Whatever. You were just annoying. :hypocrite: *hugs* Elona and the cedar cabins that make her lose her voice!

Quote from: Sis on February 05, 2009, 06:26:18 PM
Quote from: iridiscente on February 05, 2009, 05:30:03 AM
Ohhh... I have a really bad problem with that. Not so much since I'm married and don't have to worry about romance, but the feeling inferior always makes me super sarcastic so they'll run away... muahahahaha.

You don't have to worry about romance? Does that mean you have lots? Or does it mean you don't need it now you're married?  :couch:
Both.

RainbowJingles

Quote from: iridiscente on February 05, 2009, 06:51:08 PM
Ha. Whatever. You were just annoying. :hypocrite: *hugs* Elona and the cedar cabins that make her lose her voice!


**HUGS** Dina and her goofiness disguised as sarcasm

iridiscente

I liked going on the walk with you and John and Ashlee and the baby in the stroller best.

MelodyB

Quote from: RainbowJingles on February 05, 2009, 12:16:34 AM
Well, he would tell me all kinds of fun things.  He had a fascinating job, but I wasn't really interested in him much, because that's all that I found fascinating about him at the time.  It was hard to talk to him on the phone sometimes, and he was painfully shy.  He was also painfully interested (much to his sister's delight and my mother's chagrin), but I got my head turned by a 7-Day Adventist guy who was in my school.  Long story short: the 23 year old started looking better and better to my mother.  lol


Hmmmm...how fasinating. ;)

:freaky2:
Have you slapped that one dude from Indiana with a pie in the face today?
 

RainbowJingles

:o



BOL




:spitlaugh:





Wow...  Never thought about it like that, Mel!  I was simply fascinated by his life, not really attracted to him.
See what I mean about a guy thinking I'm "fascinating"??

I should re-title this thread "Elona's Self-Discovery Thread" or something.  lol

SippinTea

Self discovery? All the rest of us are discovering things about you too. *chuckle*

:beret:
"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

RainbowJingles

Okay...  Maybe I should just call it the "Elona Spills Her Guts Thread"?  Happy now, Lady SS?

iridiscente


iridiscente

Quote from: RainbowJingles on February 05, 2009, 07:22:43 PM
Okay...  Maybe I should just call it the "Elona Spills Her Guts Thread"?  Happy now, Lady SS?
What does the second "s" in "Lady SS" stand for?

RainbowJingles

It's around on the board somewhere, Dina.  I'm gonna get killed for it, though.  lol

SippinTea

Ooo... bad, bad, bad. You were sworn to secrecy. :nono: And so were Ash and Chel. *glares ferociously at Elona*

:beret:
"Going somewhere means leaving somewhere. Choosing something means choosing against other things. Gaining something means losing something else. And between the old and new--the 'was' and the 'not yet'--there exists only one thing: a very frightening journey called faith."
--taken from the book Coming Up For Air

iridiscente

Hehe... I figured it out...
* iridiscente splashes Lady SS.