Porn addiction destroying my marriage

[SippinTea]

I second Sis' suggestion that you write a book, for the sake of the women whose husbands are destroying their marriages with their sexual addictions, with no desire to change.

Kat, I know many women who need to read your book. Think about the suggestion, please?

Ruby

[barefoot]

it sounds like you may be  mad at yourself for the porn--but do not let your mind ran away about porn  remember you married him because of love-- the good and bad---find some thing to do together like walking 1 hr a day together and god may let him know that your the same girl me married ----not just someone that he lives with--god hates porn but not people-----what he is thinking may be the tool you need to reconnect with him---you do not know what he is really thinking--do not let your church folk  get between you and your  mate -- he knows your in church just set and read your bible more at home to yourself and let god put the pressure on him--he may wake up and see the real you---it may take time but if you spend all your free  time at church he is at home--find time to be together out side your home-- i would in no way stop going to church for it is your way to over come the evil one that comes to destroy--- your bible is the living word---  Jesus will take care of everyone who  call on his name-

[Cody P]

I was addicted to porn and to be honest I sometimes still struggle with it but the best thing anyone can do is to pray and help the person who is addicted through this storm. It will take time though.

[Melody]

Kat, you are a beautiful writer.  I look forward to reading more as it is a burden of mine that women, especially young women see their beauty as God has given it, and thus what sex really is and isn't. 

You are more than enough.  I don't have to see you or know you to validate that statement.  You are not deffecient in any way.  What is lacking is in the relationship, not you.  It is profitable to be healthy, to better reveal the beauty God has given you, but that is not for others but because you are a temple of the Holy Ghost. 

I have more thoughts but they are for another time.  Blessings to you Kat.

Melodyà

[kat2]

This is Kat.  I messed up my account when trying to change some data.  I've had to sign on as Kat2.  Anyway, I'm back.  Thank you for the kind words.  I do love to write.  It is especially meaningful when I can validate and encourage others and myself at the same time.  We are all in the same boat on the same journey.  It's just wonderful to be in this life, learning new lessons in love and compassion.  Love is where it's at for sure.....

[kat2]

Can someone please help me in removing my e-mail from showing.  That is what I was originally trying to do when I messed up last time.  I prefer to have my e-mail private (hidden)....Thanks

[Sis]

You can PM Scott to fix it for you. Just put "Scott" in the place for the name and he'll get it.

[kat2]

Thank you Sis, I will do that.......

[kat2]

I have not been able to make the changes I need to as Scott directed me to.  I cannot get the profile to change to get my e-mail off so, I will have to remove myself from the board.  I want to thank everyone again for the kind words and thoughts.  Sis, I'll keep you posted on my writing and will make sure you get a copy of my book as promised.  Thanks again.

[Sis]

Message Scott again. Maybe he can do it for you.

[Chseeads]

Removing yourself from the board is not going to get your email off there.

[Chseeads]

Your email is hidden now, whoever did it.

[Robert Williams]

Here is a link to a free ebook dealing with breaking the addiction through understanding the cause of pornography addiction.

http://www.rbc.org/uploadedFiles/Bible_Study/Discovery_Series/PDF/When_A_Mans_Eye_Wanders.pdf

RW

[blake]

i have been reading the posts that everyone is writing and they all sound like people who are struggling or are mad that someone else is struggling. i have struggled with porn on occasion and i have seen the damage it does in peoples lives and my own. However, that is all sin people. You woman who are hurting i am sorry that someone has chosen something over you. I know it hurts because i have felt that same feeling. Ask your self one question though. How many times have you chose things over God? How many times have you cheated on God? We our all prostitutes, but in Christ we are redeemed and loved. Next time you catch your husband cheating on you with porn (which it is cheating) ask your self how you have done the same to God. Than repent, pray for your husband and have compassion because he is a sinner who desperately needs God's grace. One day God will wipe away all our tears and we will hunger no more neither thirst, because we will be with Him. Until than realize what he has done for you. Look at your sin and turn people to Jesus for the sake of Jesus and not your selfish pain. We use sin and Jesus way to much for our own benefit than we really do to point people to Christ.
In Christ Blake.