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Poll
Question: If a guy talks to a girl about some other girl he is potentially interested in, does that mean that he would never consider dating you?
Option 1: yes- a guy doesnt talk about other girls if he is interested in you
Option 2: no- he is being honest about his feelings, and could be using it as a sounding board.
Option 3: no- he only does it to test you or to get your reaction
Option 4: yes- its a sure sign he is not interested, and trying to let you down easily
Title: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on May 11, 2008, 07:20:10 AM
Quotehe means poof.  written off.  not interested.  when a guy talks about other girls, you may as well say CYA, cuz you're off his list


one of my friends was saying that, and i was refuting her, what do you think?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 11, 2008, 07:27:47 AM
I'm thinkin' it's a pretty sure sign you're waaaayyyy off his radar in any romantic sense.

But I guess we should see what the guys say, eh? :)

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on May 11, 2008, 07:29:36 AM
yeah, thats who's input i'd like to get... :grin: just to see what they say... and if they even think about it like that... lol.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 11, 2008, 07:36:27 AM
:popcorn:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Nerd on May 11, 2008, 07:57:53 AM
QuoteIf a guy talks to a girl about some other girl he is potentially interested in, does that mean that he would never consider dating you?

If he's making it clear he's reeally interested in her, It would be my guess that it's a fair bet he's not considering dating you unless he really has a weird way of getting to the point. I can't really say that couldn't happen, but if it does, he doesn't have a clue anyway and should be treated accordingly. lol

If a girl was trying to chat me up about this guy who hung the moon, I would guess she wasn't looking for me to be anything but a sounding board.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: apsurf on May 11, 2008, 08:00:12 AM
weird.....who called my name? :freaky2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Scott on May 11, 2008, 02:02:16 PM
Or he could just be so comfortable with her that he can talk about anything.

Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Chseeads on May 11, 2008, 05:00:26 PM
Kinda depends on the situation and the individual in question.....people are weird, so ya never know. 

Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on May 11, 2008, 05:11:33 PM
Yeah, depends on what he's saying about her. Is he saying, "Man! She's hot!" Or is he just mentioning her in passing?

As a matter of fact, Stevebert still looks, He might even comment on a girl's looks. It doesn't mean he doesn't love me, it means he's not dead yet.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 11, 2008, 08:42:21 PM
Quote from: Sis on May 11, 2008, 05:11:33 PM
As a matter of fact, Stevebert still looks, He might even comment on a girl's looks. It doesn't mean he doesn't love me, it means he's not dead yet.

Nicely put. ;)

I guess when I posted earlier I was thinking of a couple specific guys I know. But after thinking of a few other specific guys I know... I don't know. If ya know what I mean...  :biglaugh:

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 11, 2008, 10:34:02 PM
   Let's not underestimate how much lack of communication may be involved here. If the guy thinks you're not interested in him (if you've told him that or he just picked up the idea somewhere,) then he may well be using you for a sounding board, as he doesn't thnk he has a chance with you

   I'm not convinced women don't sometimes  let a guy get the impression they are just friends, but reallly think/want for there to be more...you women confuse me!  :P

   If you ever told a guy you just wanted to be friends, and he's bouncing ideas off of you about who he thinks is hot and who's not, it's your own fault if you actually wanted more from him.


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: World Traveler on May 11, 2008, 10:37:27 PM
If guys talk about girls, it means they are up to something.

If guys talk to girls, it means there is nothing on TV.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: apsurf on May 12, 2008, 01:53:25 PM
Quote from: Newsman on May 11, 2008, 10:34:02 PM
   Let's not underestimate how much lack of communication may be involved here. If the guy thinks you're not interested in him (if you've told him that or he just picked up the idea somewhere,) then he may well be using you for a sounding board, as he doesn't thnk he has a chance with you

   I'm not convinced women don't sometimes  let a guy get the impression they are just friends, but reallly think/want for there to be more...you women confuse me!  :P

   If you ever told a guy you just wanted to be friends, and he's bouncing ideas off of you about who he thinks is hot and who's not, it's your own fault if you actually wanted more from him.


John  :waving:

Especially if he did pursue ya some after that and you just kept saying you wanted to be friends....Eventually they will move on and see you in a different light, and that the bulb may never get changed.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on May 12, 2008, 03:32:31 PM
i dont think its a big deal at all... girls read into things to much
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Nerd on May 12, 2008, 04:13:19 PM
QuoteOr he could just be so comfortable with her that he can talk about anything.

That may very well be. It would still seem to me that if he's professing a real romantic interest in another girl to her, that he's probably not interested in her, unless he thinks he's being sneaky and/or clever.

QuoteYeah, depends on what he's saying about her. Is he saying, "Man! She's hot!" Or is he just mentioning her in passing?

Now if he just mentioned the girl, or said she was good-lookin', that's not the same. Like Eric said, she could be reading too much into it.

QuoteIf you ever told a guy you just wanted to be friends, and he's bouncing ideas off of you about who he thinks is hot and who's not, it's your own fault if you actually wanted more from him.

Doggone skippy.  :)

Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 12, 2008, 06:54:43 PM
:popcorn:


Okay...  What about this one, then.

What if a guy starts telling you specific things he's looking for in a woman.  And you're thinking, "I have that! I AM that!"
It seems a bit awkward to just up and say, "HEY!  I have what you're looking for!"  But you're kind of left wondering if you're just not even on his radar at all... and then you kind of wonder why...
Too old?  Too cold (as in not "hot")?  Too weird?  Too clowny?  :roll:  Who knows?  *shrug*

Something inside me just kind of rejects the notion of screaming out "I...  AM...  THAT...  HEROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!"  -Larryboy

:laughhard:

Girls are confusing?!?!?!  Who said that?!?!?  GUYS are REALLY confusing!

As for the "just friends" thing, I'm not sure about that one anymore at all.  What does "just friends" mean?  And what's so bad about being "just friends" really?  Any relationship that is going to ever go anywhere needs to have a great friendship as its basis.  *shrug*  On the flipside, I would say that if a guy/girl feels like they need to have a "we're just friends" conversation, then usually the relationship "kiss of death" is involved (i.e. you can kiss the "relationship" aspect of the friendship goodbye).  Almost every time a guy has decided to have a "we ARE just friends, aren't we?" conversation with me, it is followed soon thereafter by a profession of strong interest in the girl that he ends up marrying.  :roll:

Are there certain comfort levels that throw a girl so far into a guy's comfort zone that she'll no longer hold an interest for a guy?

I've just kind of resigned myself to the fact that I make a great confidante.  Within one month, I had three guys confide in me about their romantic interests.  I was okay with that, but at the same time, I was like...  Is there anyone out there who is confiding in some poor unfortunate girl about MEEEEE?!?!?!  lol

Great topic, Chel!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 12, 2008, 06:57:32 PM
yes- a guy doesnt talk about other girls if he is interested in you  3 (25%)
no- he is being honest about his feelings, and could be using it as a sounding board.  5 (41.7%)
no- he only does it to test you or to get your reaction  2 (16.7%)
yes- its a sure sign he is not interested, and trying to let you down easily  2 (16.7%)

I'd love to know what percentage of each answers were given my males, and which percentage represents female responses.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 12, 2008, 10:00:06 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 12, 2008, 06:54:43 PM
I've just kind of resigned myself to the fact that I make a great confidante.  Within one month, I had three guys confide in me about their romantic interests.  I was okay with that, but at the same time, I was like...  Is there anyone out there who is confiding in some poor unfortunate girl about MEEEEE?!?!?!  lol

:spitlaugh:  I'm afraid I understand that one, too.  *Hugs* Elona

Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 12, 2008, 06:57:32 PM
I'd love to know what percentage of each answers were given my males, and which percentage represents female responses.

Re-count! Re-count!  :demand:

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 12, 2008, 10:07:09 PM
*gets out the paddle boat*

I guess we're in the same boat, Ruby.
Care to go for a ride across the (2-foot-deep-so-there's-no-need-to-know-how-to-swim)
lake with me?

Now the west is turning Floridian.  I shoulda known.  She's now met WAY too many o' them thar Florida people, right?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: apsurf on May 13, 2008, 12:50:55 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 12, 2008, 10:07:09 PM
*gets out the paddle boat*

I guess we're in the same boat, Ruby.
Care to go for a ride across the (2-foot-deep-so-there's-no-need-to-know-how-to-swim)
lake with me?

Now the west is turning Floridian.  I shoulda known.  She's now met WAY too many o' them thar Florida people, right?

But even 2 feet can hide a gator!!!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 13, 2008, 04:18:56 AM
*puts an oar in the boat ta beat da gator in da head*
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 13, 2008, 06:19:52 AM
I am LOVING the way this thread is turning out!!

Re-counting!! Thats defnitely a FL thing! Ruby, Ill convert you yet!
Beating GATORS!! :hyper: THAT has a nice ring to it. ;)

And I agree on the confidant thing...be there..doin that. :smirk2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 13, 2008, 11:19:37 AM
Ladies,

   I'd like to ask your advice about someone...she seems very nice, attractive..great personality..but she doesn't even fish, much less have a bass boat of her own! Should I go ahead and ask her out, or wait for a 'keeper' to come my way in the future?




















:laughhard:

John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: World Traveler on May 13, 2008, 12:59:19 PM
Well, consider this, if you were to marry her, would her name look good on your pick-up?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 13, 2008, 02:04:09 PM
*snicker* Very funny, Sir John.

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on May 13, 2008, 02:54:39 PM
Quote from: Newsman on May 13, 2008, 11:19:37 AM
Ladies,

   I'd like to ask your advice about someone...she seems very nice, attractive..great personality..but she doesn't even fish, much less have a bass boat of her own! Should I go ahead and ask her out, or wait for a 'keeper' to come my way in the future?

:laughhard:

John  :waving:

She may not like to fish, a lot of women leave that up to the men. You need to check out if she will cook the fish you bring home. She may not have a bass boat, but does she have her own fortune? Will she buy YOU a bass boat? These are important things to consider.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: The Purple Fuzzy on May 13, 2008, 04:57:10 PM
LOL, maybe we need a "Dear Sis" thread... ;)
That sounds about like some answers I've read from other ask columns...
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 13, 2008, 05:21:28 PM
Quote from: Newsman on May 13, 2008, 11:19:37 AM
Ladies,

   I'd like to ask your advice about someone...she seems very nice, attractive..great personality..but she doesn't even fish, much less have a bass boat of her own! Should I go ahead and ask her out, or wait for a 'keeper' to come my way in the future?

:laughhard:

John  :waving:

Sir John:

I am afraid that you may have failed to see the real question behind your questioning.

The true issue is this:  Will said lady look good in your boat and be good company while YOU fish!?  If so, this is a match made in fishing heaven, because she will read a book while you hold your line in the water, and you won't have to worry about her EVER catching a bigger fish than you!  When a lady catches a bigger fish than a man, then the male ego takes a beating (almost the same as an SDIF ego-beating).  This is the voice of experience.
Okay...  so I was seven years old and caught a bigger fish than my Dad, but the concept is still the same, right?

Not only that, but she will be there to cheer you on when you catch the "one that gets away" and she won't roll her eyes when you get home and try to describe it to her.

Perhaps you shouldn't toss her back in the deep blue sea quite yet.  At least invite her out on a boat first!

Swimmingly,
Rainbowjingles  (http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d40/rainbowjingles/swimfish.gif)
(I can't swim a lick, but the closing sounded appropriate)


p.s. love your answer, Sis!!  lol

p.s. again...  Sir John:  In light of this thread's topic, are you categorically eliminating anyone who reads this thread from your list of possibilities?  :eyebrow:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TRAV on May 13, 2008, 09:53:17 PM
    
Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?

Either way that guy is finding out something about you (the girl he's talking with). It might have potential for something later on. If not, then at least you have maintained some sort of good relationship with another person. That can't hurt.

After a couple question and answer sessions he might say to himself.....self, "This girl I been talkin to is pretty cool and is not a drama queen. Wow. Now that there's a keeper!"

:thumbsup2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 13, 2008, 10:23:03 PM
   A moment of seriousness; If a guy is a good frirend to another guy, it should at least factor into his thinking as to whether or not to actually go after a woman his friend has dated/has a major crush on.

   However, I think women, based on reading in this thread, take that to a higher level; as in, if I know my friend is interested in him, I wouldn't go out with him..much more a definite deal than it is with the guy.

   If a man is interested, or falls in love enough with a woman, he will NOT let friendship keep him from 'making his move'...that's my own way of thinking..I would agree that not all guys are that way.

   But, if I were fully convinced that the woman I love was about to marry another man, the only thing that might stop me from going to her and making my case would be pride..it would not be friendship with another guy.

   YMMV, of course. (Your Mileage May Vary)


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 13, 2008, 10:26:02 PM
Quote from: TRAV on May 13, 2008, 09:53:17 PM
After a couple question and answer sessions he might say to himself.....self, "This girl I been talkin to is pretty cool and is not a drama queen. Wow. Now that there's a keeper!"

:thumbsup2:

:tearhair:

Okay...  I did NOT need to hear that.

You know, my little world was so cut and dried before this poll.  :sadbounce:  I think I kind of liked it that way!  lol

I was talking to a friend today and mentioned that a guy friend was confiding in me about a budding relationship, and I told her something that had happened.  She was like...  "if he's interested in that girl, then why..." and I was like...  :tearhair:  He just knows he can trust me.  Isn't it just that simple?!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 13, 2008, 10:29:49 PM
Quote from: Newsman on May 13, 2008, 10:23:03 PM
   But, if I were fully convinced that the woman I love was about to marry another man, the only thing that might stop me from going to her and making my case would be pride..it would not be friendship with another guy.

John  :waving:

Oh my...  that is in PRESENT tense, Sir John.  :o

Anything we need to know?!    :freaky2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on May 13, 2008, 10:35:43 PM
Quote from: Newsman on May 13, 2008, 10:23:03 PM
   If a man is interested, or falls in love enough with a woman, he will NOT let friendship keep him from 'making his move'...that's my own way of thinking..I would agree that not all guys are that way.

Sheesh! The guys I knew in the world, didn't care if a woman was MARRIED. They'd hit on her anyway. It felt like no limits for them. I was talking to this guy who said he KNEW I wanted him because I smiled when I was talking to him. I told him that I smile when I talked to my dad, too. It doesn't mean anything. He tried to get  me to go out with him. He was getting married in two days!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TRAV on May 13, 2008, 11:00:31 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 13, 2008, 10:26:02 PMHe just knows he can trust me.  Isn't it just that simple?!

Yes, it is.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 13, 2008, 11:10:04 PM
 :updown:

How irritating to think that maybe I've been wrong so stinkin long.  Not that it really changes anything...  it just makes me think.

I still think it's safer to assume that if he talks about other girls that he's not interested, though.  Less chance for heartache, and it makes me feel more comfortable around the guys, as well.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on May 14, 2008, 12:54:48 AM
hmm, yeah its definately safer that way.... and then if anything else comes out of it, its just a nice surprise right?

:grin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TRAV on May 14, 2008, 02:53:32 AM
Now you're thinkin' right.  :thumbsup2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on May 14, 2008, 04:43:57 PM
from a friend's blog... I really like this, and think its fitting...
QuoteYou won't have to change your pace

Quote taken from the book A Man Worth Waiting For by Jackie Kendall, on knowing how to recognize your prince when he arrives:

"The single life is like a big running track with all these freshly painted lanes. One day she will be running in her lane, relentlessly in pursuit of Jesus, looking ahead and not around, when all of a sudden she will hear this someone approaching.

If this some one is her Boaz, she will not have to stop running, she will not have to change her pace, and she won't have to look behind her, because before she knows it, he will be running alongside her. He will keep up with her, and they will continue the race at a complimentary pace. This will be her running partner for the journey ahead. They will encourage each other and not trip each other.

I have met too many women who are running a fabulous race when suddenly they are tripped up by Bozo guys shouting for them to slow down, take a break on the benches with them, and these women are sidetracked for years. Remember to be patient in anticipation of one coming up alongside you, who will also be panting in relentless pursuit of Jesus."

Read this a few days ago, and have been pondering it since.

To be frankly honest, I'm sick of fighting to keep my pace when it seems there are far too many guys trying to slow me down. I'm sick of the awful feeling that I know my Bible better than they do. I'm sick of people suggesting that I'm too picky.

Yes, life gets lonely. Horribly lonely. So lonely that sometimes I fear I'm losing my mind. But I know where I'm headed in this journey called life. And the thought of being married to someone who is aimlessly wandering and wasting time and is apathetic (at best) about his relationship with Jesus... well, it makes me sad and angry all at the same time.

If I'm to ever marry, it's got to be to someone I can respect. Someone whose stride is not slower than my own. Someone whose passion for Jesus draws in everyone around him. Someone who is prepared to be a spiritual leader.

I don't want to be looking behind me, pulling him along, trying in vain to discuss Scriptures with someone who can't.

Yes, this post has quite a different feel from my usual way of posting, but it's from my heart.

If I'm to ever marry, it's got to be to someone who does what is right, who loves mercy, who walks humbly with his God (Micah 6:8 ), someone who defends truth, humility, and justice (Psalm 45:4).

If you're out there, Darling, may God keep you. May He bless you beyond your wildest dreams, may He guard your heart and mind and body until He leads you to me, may He give you strength and courage to be all He has planned for you to be.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 14, 2008, 05:02:48 PM
:thumbsup2:

I love that blog. ;)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on May 14, 2008, 05:04:41 PM
me too! :grin:


it always has something cool! lol, and its often how i feel, just expressed in a much better way!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 14, 2008, 05:06:25 PM
I agree.  :-)  Great blog!  :-)

*starts running the track*
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 14, 2008, 05:32:24 PM
I agree Chel, it is almost always word for word what I FEEL, but cant put into words. ;)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on May 14, 2008, 05:47:10 PM
wow! Great thoughts!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: lojack on May 20, 2008, 11:29:19 PM
It could be anyone of those choices, so i didnt vote.  i've used all 4 of the choices, it just depended on the person and my motive.  Hmmmmm, i think someone might of asked sunshine bout one of her friends and has possibly entertained the idea of dating him.  And is now trying to figure out if she should tell her friend what he asked or to see if he really might like sunshine and thinks could get groovy!  And she is now trying to figure out how many kids she wants and their names.  Oh the action that happens here at Godplace!!!       ok, i'm prolly reading too deep into this topic lol  :pound:    I'll now disappear for another month or two.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on May 21, 2008, 01:51:45 AM
where HAVE you been BTW?

why the dissapearing act?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on May 21, 2008, 02:49:54 AM
He's trying to maintain his mysterious facade.  :laughhard:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: lojack on November 17, 2008, 07:23:47 AM
Quote from: sunlight on May 21, 2008, 01:51:45 AM
where HAVE you been BTW?

why the dissapearing act?
.


LOL, i said i would be back in 1 or 2 months and it's almost 6 months later that i come back!   :pound:  Anything new around here?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on November 17, 2008, 07:30:42 AM
yeah... i decided you cant count... :grin: glad you are alive and well!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on November 17, 2008, 07:38:56 AM
*sigh*   :reaction:  WHY did you guys have to go and resurrect this disturbing thread!?!?!  :sadbounce:

*reads lojack's sig line*

Is it too late for a date?  lol  Or are you famous now?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: lojack on December 06, 2008, 01:56:28 AM
still single but now famous!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on December 06, 2008, 02:27:42 AM
Uh oh.  So how are you going to get dates now that you're too famous to date?
*confused*

Hmmm...
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on December 06, 2008, 05:21:51 AM
Quote from: lojack on December 06, 2008, 01:56:28 AM
still single but now famous!

Did you say infamous?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 02, 2009, 12:36:06 PM
*bump* for a secrative reason...  :teeth:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on January 02, 2009, 07:30:56 PM
:freaky2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on January 03, 2009, 12:09:03 AM
So Eric...  have you been talking to Mel about other girls?  :freaky2:

:reporter:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 03, 2009, 01:29:18 AM
lol.. no, not exactly.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on January 03, 2009, 01:37:20 AM
:spitlaugh:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on January 03, 2009, 02:56:02 AM
*sudden coughing fit*

*chokes*

*turns purple*

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 03, 2009, 03:14:09 AM
Ashlee told me to...

*runs*
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on January 03, 2009, 03:43:14 AM
:listen: Yes? What did Ashlee tell you to do?

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 03, 2009, 03:54:56 AM
Im in hiding. lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on January 03, 2009, 04:02:15 AM
*listens for a whisper*

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 03, 2009, 04:22:45 AM
seth told me to!

:hypocrite:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Ashlee on January 03, 2009, 06:04:35 AM
LOL!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on January 03, 2009, 09:15:12 AM
:chuckle:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 03, 2009, 09:42:36 AM
:gigglesnort:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on January 06, 2009, 08:03:27 AM
So...  Did Eric talk to Ashlee about other girls...?

:eyebrow:

:reporter:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: nwlife on January 06, 2009, 08:16:42 AM
Sooo, Eric was her special guest she was talking about the other day?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on January 06, 2009, 08:38:51 AM
Hmmm...

*taking notes*
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 06, 2009, 02:48:29 PM
NO!

lol..

NO John! *grin*

Quote from: RainbowJingles on January 06, 2009, 08:03:27 AM
So...  Did Eric talk to Ashlee about other girls...?

:eyebrow:

:reporter:
nope.. lol well, I dunno.. maybe its possible actually

Quote from: nwlife on January 06, 2009, 08:16:42 AM
Sooo, Eric was her special guest she was talking about the other day?
and no, I know who that was though.

:grin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on January 06, 2009, 08:06:08 PM
AHA!  So Ashlee was talking to Eric about other guys!  :freaky2:

:reporter:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 07, 2009, 02:45:59 AM
*slaps forhead*

lol..
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on January 07, 2009, 02:55:49 AM
Quote from: EricShane on January 07, 2009, 02:45:59 AM
*slaps forhead*

lol..

Here, let me do that!   :pound:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 07, 2009, 03:03:02 AM
ow lol ow lol ow lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on January 08, 2009, 12:21:22 AM
:highfive:
Hey, Sis!  Looks like we've finally HIT upon something there!
:bigcheese:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on January 08, 2009, 12:24:19 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on January 08, 2009, 12:21:22 AM
:highfive:
Hey, Sis!  Looks like we've finally HIT upon something there!
:bigcheese:

Hee hee!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Ashlee on January 08, 2009, 01:14:03 AM
Quote from: SippinTea on January 03, 2009, 03:43:14 AM
:listen: Yes? What did Ashlee tell you to do?

:beret:

I remember what I told him NOT to do.

Quote from: RainbowJingles on January 06, 2009, 08:03:27 AM
So...  Did Eric talk to Ashlee about other girls...?

:eyebrow:

:reporter:
Well, technically he did. But that's another story.

Quote from: nwlife on January 06, 2009, 08:16:42 AM
Sooo, Eric was her special guest she was talking about the other day?
No, I have never been his guest.

Quote from: RainbowJingles on January 06, 2009, 08:06:08 PM
AHA!  So Ashlee was talking to Eric about other guys!  :freaky2:

:reporter:

*sigh*  I guess technically you could say that, but what he had to tell me was much more interesting.  Eric really has more drama than he realizes.  lol.  That's why I enjoyed talking to him though.  Kept my mind off my own.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on January 08, 2009, 01:23:16 AM
Where is John when we need him?

Shall we all join in a chorus...?


Hmmm...
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Ashlee on January 08, 2009, 04:19:12 AM
I was only defending myself! :hypocrite:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: nwlife on January 08, 2009, 08:43:24 AM
So if Eric wasn't the special guest from the north, and there seems to be nothing developing between Sir-bust-a-move (almost typed bust-a-moo!) and miss lousiana 2009,

does it stand to reason that if I ever drifted south, that she might want to play hide & seek in the bayou?

well, had to help develop the next investigation somehow! :hypocrite:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on January 08, 2009, 08:44:19 AM
That's okay.  It doesn't matter WHY you say what you say.  It only matters WHAT you say (and sometimes even THAT doesn't matter TOO much).  :bigcheese:

Quote from: Ashlee on January 08, 2009, 04:19:12 AM
I was only defending myself! :hypocrite:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: CDAGeek on January 08, 2009, 10:39:57 PM
Not to derail the derailment, but as far as the original question, I know if I was the guy it doesn't mean I'm necessarily uninterested, but just that I'm as ignorant and ...well, ignorant pretty much sums it up, as ever.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on January 09, 2009, 04:51:28 PM
Quote from: Ashlee on January 08, 2009, 01:14:03 AM
Quote from: SippinTea on January 03, 2009, 03:43:14 AM
:listen: Yes? What did Ashlee tell you to do?

:beret:

I remember what I told him NOT to do.

Quote from: RainbowJingles on January 06, 2009, 08:03:27 AM
So...  Did Eric talk to Ashlee about other girls...?

:eyebrow:

:reporter:
Well, technically he did. But that's another story.

Quote from: nwlife on January 06, 2009, 08:16:42 AM
Sooo, Eric was her special guest she was talking about the other day?
No, I have never been his guest.

Quote from: RainbowJingles on January 06, 2009, 08:06:08 PM
AHA!  So Ashlee was talking to Eric about other guys!  :freaky2:

:reporter:

*sigh*  I guess technically you could say that, but what he had to tell me was much more interesting.  Eric really has more drama than he realizes.  lol.  That's why I enjoyed talking to him though.  Kept my mind off my own.
LOL... Girl, I stay 'out' of the drama these days.. if you think im dramafied now, you shoulda seen me a few years ago!!!! HAHAH! *hugs* btw, I am missing you!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 12:35:23 AM
I am no longer convinced that a guy's conversations with me about other girls mean anything deep or meaningful in regards to our relationship or lack thereof.

I am no longer convinced that a guy has written me off if he tells me that he might be interested in another girl.

I am no longer certain that a guy would be totally UNinterested in me, even if he were to tell me about the fact that he's going on a date with another girl.

I'm now realizing that a guy who is going on a date with a girl and calls another girl (i.e. ME) while waiting for his date is NOT necessarily trying to send me a signal that "you and I are just friends."  As a matter of fact, he may simply be totally confused, and not have a clue what he really wants in life yet.

If a guy confides in me about his dates, he trusts me.
If he confides in me about TWO MORE GIRLS that he might be interested in over the course of three or four months, he REALLY trusts me.

BUT...  when I finally confide in him that there are a couple guys interested in me, he wakes up and lets me know that he's been praying about US.  :o
I didn't realize that there might ever BE an "us."
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 12, 2009, 01:17:19 AM
:o
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on February 12, 2009, 01:42:37 AM
:spitlaugh: Elona..... I don't even have a response. That's such a classic example of confused (and confusing) single life.

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: The Purple Fuzzy on February 12, 2009, 01:47:56 AM
Guys are confusing no matter what age. :smirk:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: CDAGeek on February 12, 2009, 03:31:32 AM
We make perfect sense until the insanity that is the female population enters the equation.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on February 12, 2009, 03:47:48 AM
Hardly!

What I've learned over the years. If a girl or your wife (Woman) tells you something about another woman, listen to her. She knows what she's talking about. If she says something about another girl liking you or has a secret crush, listen. She can see the game playing long before you do.

The same with a guy. My husband told me that this guy, we were helping, was falling for me (must have been insane), I listened to him and sure enough, it was true. Guys can read guys better than we can.

God made us different for  a reason. Not to complain, but to fit together and fill the empty spaces the other one doesn't have. Women are the nurturing ones and men are the hunters. God made women sensitive to understand what the children need. He made men a bit tougher because they had to kill to eat, so they don't look at a deer and see Bambi, they see dinner.

So, quit complaining. Enjoy the differences, put them to good use and you both will have a full life together. You singles have time to think about that before you get married.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: CDAGeek on February 12, 2009, 05:35:02 AM
QuoteYou singles have time to think about that before you get married.

A bit too much time from my point of view  :biglaugh:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 07:06:32 AM
Quote from: SippinTea on February 12, 2009, 01:42:37 AM
:spitlaugh: Elona..... I don't even have a response. That's such a classic example of confused (and confusing) single life.

:beret:

Exactly.  I found it quite amusing after I re-read it, as well.  lol

During the whole process I constantly pushed down feelings and consistently told myself that he wasn't interested, and that he was sending out the "no chance for us" vibe to the point that I convinced myself thoroughly, and it's been hard to even comprehend that he would even consider... well...  US.  :o

Quote from: Sis on February 12, 2009, 03:47:48 AM
He made men a bit tougher because they had to kill to eat, so they don't look at a deer and see Bambi, they see dinner.

So, quit complaining. Enjoy the differences, put them to good use and you both will have a full life together.

Sis: you crack me up!  :-)  **HUGS** Sis  That was classic.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Rae on February 12, 2009, 01:41:36 PM
aw. Elona! :)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on February 12, 2009, 01:51:15 PM
Soooo, how many guys does this make now, Lady Elona?

Inquiring Chief Instigato..errr, Investigators want to know!  :thumbsup2:


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 05:57:07 PM
lol  It makes one.

Strangely enough, it seems that there may actually be a time when the names of the rest of the gentlemen on the list of admirers begin to fade from the mind of a lady being prayerfully pursued.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on February 12, 2009, 05:58:03 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 05:57:07 PM
lol  It makes one.

Strangely enough, it seems that there may actually be a time when the names of the rest of the gentlemen on the list of admirers begin to fade from the mind of a lady being prayerfully pursued.

Mmm, hmm... Do tell more! :freaky2:

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 06:04:02 PM
lol  There isn't much more to say right now.  He thinks things through extensively, and I trust his walk with God, and we're both still praying about things.  We shall see where things go from here.

End of Story

for now



:chairspin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on February 12, 2009, 06:11:02 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 05:57:07 PM
Strangely enough, it seems that there may actually be a time when the names of the rest of the gentlemen on the list of admirers begin to fade from the mind of a lady being prayerfully pursued.


ya know... i just love that quote from you.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 06:42:46 PM
:cloud9:  I kinda like it, too, Chel.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Rae on February 12, 2009, 08:22:12 PM
Me too. ;)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 08:46:18 PM
Thanks, gals.

*contented sigh*
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on February 12, 2009, 08:47:00 PM
(http://photos-e.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v2255/180/17/502988339/n502988339_1325596_8242.jpg)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 08:48:40 PM
Okay...  who wrote THAT to you, Chel?!  :freaky2:

Seriously...  that is REALLY romantical fer sher.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on February 12, 2009, 08:52:02 PM
:freaky2: i thought so too...

i found it on a friends facebook... lol!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 12, 2009, 09:12:49 PM
Quote from: sunlight on February 12, 2009, 08:52:02 PM
:freaky2: i thought so too...

i found it on a friends facebook... lol!

Oh well...  lol  We can hope, right?  :-)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 13, 2009, 02:28:08 AM
That was awesome!

*HuGs* Elona AND Chel

:bigcheese:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on February 13, 2009, 02:21:53 PM
/me hugs becca back! and elona too! :grin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 13, 2009, 08:28:48 PM
I've never seen words flutter. And if your words don't have weight and flutter around I don't know if I'd like them. :smirk2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 13, 2009, 08:29:55 PM
:roll:  Leave it to Dina to be practical when someone's trying to be romantical.  Poor Ben.  lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: The Purple Fuzzy on February 13, 2009, 08:33:14 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on February 13, 2009, 08:29:55 PM
:roll:  Leave it to Dina to be practical when someone's trying to be romantical.  Poor Ben.  lol
Nanner, nanner, nanner, Dina got called practical. :girltongue:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 13, 2009, 08:59:59 PM
It's in my genes. Part practical and part dreamer.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on February 13, 2009, 09:08:14 PM
Quote from: iridiscente on February 13, 2009, 08:59:59 PM
It's in my genes. Part practical and part dreamer.

You sure about that? I've only seen the practical side of you. *grin*

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 13, 2009, 09:24:55 PM
There's a reason for that ;)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 14, 2009, 06:12:55 AM
Practical smatical lactical...

:bigcheese:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 14, 2009, 07:57:23 AM
The dreamer part happens when she sleeps, Ruby.  When she's awake, she's practical.  lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 14, 2009, 08:42:31 AM
The Little Star who could... *giggle*

(http://www.shangralafamilyfun.com/galp-t/stardancing.gif)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: The Purple Fuzzy on February 15, 2009, 01:54:53 AM
I like it! :)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 15, 2009, 02:39:15 AM
:bigcheese:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Nerd on February 15, 2009, 04:34:53 AM
QuoteNanner, nanner, nanner, Dina got called practical.

:biglaugh:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 16, 2009, 04:46:19 AM
(http://cdn-4.11piecesofflare.com/d1/stickers/6058/2664/igar5t_thumb.jpg)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on February 16, 2009, 05:39:30 AM
Can you spell ADHD?  :couch:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Envelope on February 16, 2009, 06:41:39 PM
Quote from: Brecxie on February 14, 2009, 06:12:55 AM
Practical smatical lactical...

:bigcheese:

what about tactical?

he he

sharon
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Envelope on February 16, 2009, 06:52:57 PM
Quote from: sunlight on February 12, 2009, 08:47:00 PM
(http://photos-e.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v2255/180/17/502988339/n502988339_1325596_8242.jpg)

sunlight..........I really liked that.........even if it's "borrowed" LOL

sharon
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 17, 2009, 12:21:07 AM
galactical is more like what some like ruby would appreciate!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on February 17, 2009, 01:58:31 AM
*grins for no reason*

Starlight, star bright, first star I see tonight...
Wish I may, wish I might, have the wish I wish tonight.

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on February 17, 2009, 04:46:42 AM
/me grins for a hidden reason... and for one that a few ppl know. :grin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 17, 2009, 04:54:12 AM
galactic tactics
stargazers dream.
surveyors of Orion
(who has tightened his belt
to bring the states closer)

a phone call

a satellite connection...
As a signal bounces
from star
to star
to home.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: sunlight on February 17, 2009, 04:56:22 AM
/me hugs dina tight.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 17, 2009, 04:58:43 AM
:attackhug:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on February 17, 2009, 06:25:29 AM
Hmmm...


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 17, 2009, 05:43:59 PM
:waving: @ :bustamove:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on February 17, 2009, 07:21:24 PM
*attackhugs* Dina, too

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 17, 2009, 10:18:48 PM
/me soaks up all of the hugs for a rainy day!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: The Purple Fuzzy on February 17, 2009, 10:28:57 PM
It's rainy here.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 18, 2009, 12:35:58 AM
I meant emotionally, but ok.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: The Purple Fuzzy on February 18, 2009, 01:01:53 AM
Maybe I did too.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 20, 2009, 02:42:43 AM
Anything al on the end works just fine...

:lol:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 20, 2009, 09:41:29 PM
Quote from: iridiscente on February 17, 2009, 10:18:48 PM
/me soaks up all of the hugs for a rainy day!
Quote from: The Purple Fuzzy on February 17, 2009, 10:28:57 PM
It's rainy here.
Quote from: iridiscente on February 18, 2009, 12:35:58 AM
I meant emotionally, but ok.
Quote from: The Purple Fuzzy on February 18, 2009, 01:01:53 AM
Maybe I did too.
Quote from: Brecxie on February 20, 2009, 02:42:43 AM
Anything al on the end works just fine...

:lol:
Traditional? correctional? transitional? corral? postal? oppositional?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 22, 2009, 04:28:45 AM
/me shakes her head
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 23, 2009, 07:35:25 AM
**HUGS** the poll that rocked her world

:chairspin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 23, 2009, 07:45:57 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 13, 2008, 10:26:02 PM
Quote from: TRAV on May 13, 2008, 09:53:17 PM
After a couple question and answer sessions he might say to himself.....self, "This girl I been talkin to is pretty cool and is not a drama queen. Wow. Now that there's a keeper!"

:thumbsup2:

:tearhair:

Okay...  I did NOT need to hear that.

You know, my little world was so cut and dried before this poll.  :sadbounce:  I think I kind of liked it that way!  lol

I was talking to a friend today and mentioned that a guy friend was confiding in me about a budding relationship, and I told her something that had happened.  She was like...  "if he's interested in that girl, then why..." and I was like...  :tearhair:  He just knows he can trust me.  Isn't it just that simple?!

*remembers this moment in time*
:bigcheese:

My friend's questions were apparently fairly valid.
And apparently Trav wasn't too far off base, either.

:chairspin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 23, 2009, 07:46:51 AM
*looks at the date stamps*

WOW!  This thing has been going on a lot longer than I thought it had been!!!  :o
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 23, 2009, 04:08:27 PM
So once you really get going it shouldn't take as long, right?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 23, 2009, 08:33:47 PM
I just remember writing him off over and over and OVER again.  It was like...  "just friends," "just friends," "just friends..."  :tearhair:

Then there would be something that would make me think...  "Huh??  Why did he say THAT?!?!"  and soon I'd be back to the
"just friends," "just friends," "just friends..."  :tearhair: thing again.

But I remind myself often that "just" friends is really not a terrible thing.  "Just friends" learn things about one another that you don't normally tell anyone else.  "Just friends" confide in and trust one another.  "Just friends" don't obsess over one another.  "Just friends" listen and don't get upset when you don't remember every detail.  "Just friends" are often at the level beyond the beginning of a dating relationship, really.  They're in that zone where they're not afraid of breaking up, because you don't break up with "just friends."  There are no major expectations, and you relax around one another.  You're *real*.  And that is where love (the agape love) seems to build.  That selfless love that just seems to appear out of nowhere as you begin to realize that you want what is best for that person, even if it may NOT involve you.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on February 23, 2009, 08:35:19 PM
Quote from: iridiscente on February 23, 2009, 04:08:27 PM
So once you really get going it shouldn't take as long, right?

I have no further comment at this time.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: nwlife on February 23, 2009, 09:41:47 PM
You know, a comment made already is correct, sometimes you are talking to someone about someone else, in order to bounce ideas off them.  Only to realize that the one you were talking to is a keeper or worth pursuing. 

The only irony of one particular situation (for me anyway) is because of decisions already made, the pursuit of both a dream you have had since childhood and that person just can not be done, or only to realize you can not pursue that person, because you realize you can not fit into the calling on that person's life.  The choice is heartwrenching.

But the flip side is for most situations, if you realize it in time, you may have just found the perfect gift from God that was sitting there talking to you all that time. 
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on February 24, 2009, 09:29:01 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on February 23, 2009, 08:35:19 PM
Quote from: iridiscente on February 23, 2009, 04:08:27 PM
So once you really get going it shouldn't take as long, right?

I have no further comment at this time.
A certain Investigator has trained you well... but I have a feeling you didn't need much.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on February 25, 2009, 03:57:31 AM
:lol:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 04:58:51 AM
Why not be happy for them? Maybe they found someone who is a better match for them than you are.... that's great, right? Marriage is gonna be tough even under the best of circumstances. Who knows? If we keep a right attitude maybe next time it'll be the Lord sending Mister/ Misses Right our way! Hallelujah!   :clap:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 05:03:08 AM
Quote from: sunlight on February 12, 2009, 08:47:00 PM
(http://photos-e.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v2255/180/17/502988339/n502988339_1325596_8242.jpg)
Uhmm... not everyone has an "extraordinary mind" to offer. Sometimes a guy might just have to settle for striking good looks and an hourglass figure  :sadbounce:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 13, 2009, 05:47:21 AM
Quote from: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 04:58:51 AM
Why not be happy for them? Maybe they found someone who is a better match for them than you are.... that's great, right? Marriage is gonna be tough even under the best of circumstances. Who knows? If we keep a right attitude maybe next time it'll be the Lord sending Mister/ Misses Right our way! Hallelujah!   :clap:

Marriage doesn't have to be tough. It can have some rough spots, but if you're working together and not pulling apart, you will make it through in less time than if you fight each other.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 06:09:26 AM
I've never been married so I can't offer my own insights, I just know the elders seem to agree that it's work.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 13, 2009, 03:39:35 PM
Next year it will be 25 years, and we're still honeymooning. And it hasn't been that much work. Just let the hubby lead, give him a few ideas and we go on that. AND definitely stick together when things go wrong, we don't blame each other for the tough times. We stick together and PRAY!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 04:40:32 PM
I suppose marriage might be like a sport in some respects. Sure, anybody can learn the basics of the game and play... but some people have a natural talent that takes them to the Big Leagues. Some people have to work at it constantly and never become very good at it, while for others it seems to come naturally, almost effortlessly.

However, I don't think just one person in the relationship could be "good" at marriage and that be enough. You'd have to have two people who were both gifted at the "game" of marriage for it to work as well as you've described.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 13, 2009, 04:42:26 PM
*begins to picture marriage like a monopoly game board*

lol

"Go to the doghouse - directly to the doghouse.  Do not pass go; do not collect $200."
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 13, 2009, 04:42:34 PM
After all, Rebecca was caught "sporting" with her husband wasn't she?   :laughhard:   :hypocrite:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 04:44:51 PM
Quote from: Sis on March 13, 2009, 04:42:34 PM
After all, Rebecca was caught "sporting" with her husband wasn't she?   :laughhard:   :hypocrite:
lol, or was Abraham sporting with her?  :biglaugh:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on March 13, 2009, 04:46:24 PM
Quote from: Sis on March 13, 2009, 03:39:35 PM
Next year it will be 25 years, and we're still honeymooning. And it hasn't been that much work. Just let the hubby lead, give him a few ideas and we go on that. AND definitely stick together when things go wrong, we don't blame each other for the tough times. We stick together and PRAY!

Ya know, Sis... I like the way you put that.

Quote from: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 04:44:51 PM
Quote from: Sis on March 13, 2009, 04:42:34 PM
After all, Rebecca was caught "sporting" with her husband wasn't she?   :laughhard:   :hypocrite:
lol, or was Abraham sporting with her?  :biglaugh:

*groooooaaannnn*

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 04:50:07 PM
I've always wondered about that word "sporting"... what were they doing, just fooling around? Being playful with one another in an obviously not brother/sisterly way?
I can't imagine before toothpaste and  mouthwash there was a whole lot of passionate kissing going on... but who knows?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 13, 2009, 06:40:07 PM
Quote from: SippinTea on March 13, 2009, 04:46:24 PM

Ya know, Sis... I like the way you put that.

Thank you, but it's just that simple. I know people who sit there and blame each other when things go wrong. Even when I totaled the car, he didn't blame me. I felt guilty, but he was right there BESIDE me, not pointing fingers.


Quote from: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 04:50:07 PM
I've always wondered about that word "sporting"... what were they doing, just fooling around? Being playful with one another in an obviously not brother/sisterly way?
I can't imagine before toothpaste and  mouthwash there was a whole lot of passionate kissing going on... but who knows?

Well, they weren't brother and sister, and the mouth will cleanse itself if you leave the chemicals alone. God made us and he didn't make Listerine.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 06:46:26 PM
Quote from: Sis on March 13, 2009, 06:40:07 PM

Well, they weren't brother and sister, and the mouth will cleanse itself if you leave the chemicals alone. God made us and he didn't make Listerine.
Uhmm... the mouth will rot your teeth if you "leave the chemicals alone", lol.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 14, 2009, 03:40:29 AM
The foods you eat, the water and other liquids you eat are part of it. They brush/wash away the things that cause bad breath. God invented this body to take care of that stuff.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Amelia Bedelia on March 14, 2009, 04:33:41 AM
there are cultures that use a special grass to scrape their teeth clean and its worked for centuries... now colgate goes in and "shows a better way" and people forget the old ways and the poorest are left with nothing

and as long as the morning breath is equal then whats the problem?  LOL
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Tsalagi on March 14, 2009, 04:49:07 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on March 13, 2009, 04:42:26 PM
*begins to picture marriage like a monopoly game board*

lol

"Go to the doghouse - directly to the doghouse.  Do not pass go; do not collect $200."


That one gets a coveted '3 monkeys'

:monkey2: :monkey2: :monkey2:

Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Tsalagi on March 14, 2009, 04:50:25 AM
Quote from: Jallen on March 13, 2009, 04:44:51 PM
Quote from: Sis on March 13, 2009, 04:42:34 PM
After all, Rebecca was caught "sporting" with her husband wasn't she?   :laughhard:   :hypocrite:
lol, or was Abraham sporting with her?  :biglaugh:

Isaac.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on March 14, 2009, 05:27:50 AM
Quote from: Sis on March 13, 2009, 04:42:34 PM
After all, Rebecca was caught "sporting" with her husband wasn't she?   :laughhard:   :hypocrite:

No I wasnt...

I dont have a husband...

:o
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 14, 2009, 05:51:15 AM
Quote from: Amelia Bedelia on March 14, 2009, 04:33:41 AM
there are cultures that use a special grass to scrape their teeth clean and its worked for centuries... now colgate goes in and "shows a better way" and people forget the old ways and the poorest are left with nothing

and as long as the morning breath is equal then whats the problem?  LOL


:laughat:  Very true!

Quote from: Brecxie on March 14, 2009, 05:27:50 AM
Quote from: Sis on March 13, 2009, 04:42:34 PM
After all, Rebecca was caught "sporting" with her husband wasn't she?   :laughhard:   :hypocrite:

No I wasnt...

I dont have a husband...

:o

:laughat: :laughat: :laughat: :laughat:

You're fast!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 14, 2009, 08:30:08 AM
Quote from: Tsalagi on March 14, 2009, 04:49:07 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on March 13, 2009, 04:42:26 PM
*begins to picture marriage like a monopoly game board*

lol

"Go to the doghouse - directly to the doghouse.  Do not pass go; do not collect $200."


That one gets a coveted '3 monkeys'

:monkey2: :monkey2: :monkey2:



*curtsies*

Why, thank you.  :bigcheese:
I think
lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Jallen on March 14, 2009, 04:09:26 PM
Quote from: Tsalagi on March 14, 2009, 04:50:25 AM
Isaac.
I haven't looked it up but I think you're right. Good catch; my apologies.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on March 15, 2009, 12:42:35 AM
I know Im fast...

:hypocrite:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 15, 2009, 05:17:22 AM
:chairspin:

This thread makes me HAPPY.  :-)

:cloud9:

:chairspin:


:chairspin:

Really

:chairspin:

really

:chairspin:

HAPPY
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: iridiscente on March 15, 2009, 05:22:17 AM
*hugs* Elona!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 15, 2009, 06:18:37 AM
Becca, you saying you're a fast woman?  :yikes:

Why does it make you so happy, RJ?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 15, 2009, 09:16:02 AM
Just cuz it duz, Sis.  :bigcheese:

**HUGS** Dina

**HUGS** Sir Chairspin, who seems to have set my world spinning

:chairspin:

Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 15, 2009, 07:25:57 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on March 15, 2009, 09:16:02 AM
Just cuz it duz, Sis.  :bigcheese:

:laughat: That's funny. Cuz it duz!  :rofl:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on March 15, 2009, 08:14:10 PM
No Sis...

Not that kinda fast...

:roll:

:lol:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 15, 2009, 11:21:45 PM
I knew that! Was brattin' again.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on March 16, 2009, 04:00:33 AM
BRAT!!

:pound:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 16, 2009, 04:07:27 PM
(http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t201/VictoriaBC/Smileys/Smiley70.gif)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on March 24, 2009, 04:24:07 AM
:pound: Sis
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 24, 2009, 05:19:49 AM
 :pound: Becca
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 24, 2009, 05:36:16 AM
:chairspin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 24, 2009, 06:51:48 AM
Stevebert talks about other girls.  Mostly his students! It means he's talking about someone he knows.   :laughhard:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on March 25, 2009, 01:43:06 AM
:chairspin: s with Elona
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 25, 2009, 03:15:00 AM
Looks like fun. *Sis joins Becca and RJ*

(http://godplace.com/forum/Smileys/godplace/girl_chair.gif) (http://godplace.com/forum/Smileys/godplace/girl_chair.gif) (http://godplace.com/forum/Smileys/godplace/girl_chair.gif)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 25, 2009, 09:33:12 PM
:chairspinud:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 25, 2009, 11:06:01 PM
Don't wanna ride upsidedown though. I might get dizzy and fall off.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on March 31, 2009, 05:07:22 AM
(http://godplace.com/forum/Smileys/godplace/girl_chair_updown.gif) with Elona, but upside down this time
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 31, 2009, 06:24:20 AM
:bigcheese:


:chairspinud:

**HUGS** even more random calls in the middle of the day
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on March 31, 2009, 08:38:51 AM
Umm, Lady Elona?

   You've written of being "prayerfully pursued." You've admitted to being "twitterpated."

   That would seem to make these calls not so 'random' to begin with, much less "more random" in nature!


Your Friendly Chief Investigator,
John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 31, 2009, 05:43:12 PM
lol  John.  You're a mess.  Instead of confirming or denying the aforementioned allegations, I shall attempt to add a little more tinder to the fire.  :hypocrite:

Quote from: Newsman on March 31, 2009, 08:38:51 AM
Umm, Lady Elona?

   You've written of being "prayerfully pursued." You've admitted to being "twitterpated."

:cloud9:  Yes, I have, haven't I?  I love that phrase...  "prayerfully pursued."  It just totally seems to FIT what is truly going on, and it is the most incredible feeling EVER.

As to being "twitterpated" - well, I must again confess that I am indeed twitterpated.  :bigcheese:
:chairspin:


Quote from: Newsman on March 31, 2009, 08:38:51 AM
   That would seem to make these calls not so 'random' to begin with, much less "more random" in nature!

Your Friendly Chief Investigator,
John  :waving:

Now HERE is where I explain the "random" part...  :bigcheese:
A "not-so-random" call is the type that I can somewhat predict...  maybe once a day, and usually in the evening when everything has settled down and we are both able to talk a bit.

The word "more" in this context was referring to more "random calls" not the fact that the calls were "more random."

And a "random" call can be defined as a call that comes when it's totally unexpected and pretty much for no real reason (although, he apparently seems to think that *I* could be considered a reason in and of myself, so perhaps the definition of "random" in this case is a bit skewed).  :cloud9:  An example of a random call would be when he has five minutes left on his break and spends them on a call to me.  Those kinds of phone calls at random times for no "real" reason (except to say, "I only have a minute, but I wanted to see how your day is going") are the kind that make a lady feel valued, cared for, and even...  :love:  :blush:

:chairspinud:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on March 31, 2009, 06:17:37 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on March 31, 2009, 05:43:12 PM
And a "random" call can be defined as a call that comes when it's totally unexpected and pretty much for no real reason (although, he apparently seems to think that *I* could be considered a reason in and of myself, so perhaps the definition of "random" in this case is a bit skewed).  :cloud9: 

I love that kind of phone call. :love:  Those kinds of phone calls make my toes happy and I start dancing.

(Speaking of dancing on tiptoe, I still need to find a smilie to use when I'm dancing. There's got to be a cute one out there somewhere....)

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 31, 2009, 06:19:20 PM
I'd be grateful for ANY phone calls.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on March 31, 2009, 06:22:30 PM
Now, Sis... you get to see him every evening when he comes home from work. None o' that whinin'. :nono:

Some of us don't have the luxury of seeing someone special every day, and we go completely nutty over phone calls just 'cause we get to hear his voice, even when we can't see his eyes.

:sing: Count your phone calls, name them one by one....

*cough*

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on March 31, 2009, 06:29:28 PM
He's the only one I have to talk to around here. That's why I said ANY phone calls. I didn't say from someone special.  :hypocrite:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on March 31, 2009, 07:44:58 PM
rofl Sis and Ruby.

:sing: s with Ruby...

...Count your phone calls, see what God has done!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on April 01, 2009, 12:30:44 AM
I use to get those special phone calls...

BUT...

Sometimes things DONT work out...

:smirk2:

:lol:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on April 01, 2009, 03:34:52 AM
Yup. Been there, done that, Becca.

...And thanked God a million and two times that it did NOT go the way I thought I wanted it to.

Chin up, Grlie. Your twitterpated love story is coming. :) And when it does, remember I told you so. ;)

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on April 01, 2009, 05:12:54 AM
/me is trying to patiently wait

:lol:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on April 01, 2009, 05:17:18 AM
**HUGS** Becca

Pull up a chair and wait for it to spin, girlie.  :bigcheese:

:chairspinud:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on April 01, 2009, 05:54:56 AM
(http://godplace.com/forum/Smileys/godplace/girl_chair_updown.gif) <------  Becca is practicing her spinning skills!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on April 01, 2009, 06:48:28 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on April 01, 2009, 05:17:18 AM
**slaps** Becca

Pull up a chair and wait for it to spin, girlie.  :bigcheese:

:chairspinud:

**slaps** B

**H U G S** Becca

ROFL
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on April 04, 2009, 01:28:48 AM
:lol: @ Elona

Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on April 04, 2009, 03:04:01 AM
*Sis wonders if she'd get a slap or a hugg*
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on April 04, 2009, 10:36:27 PM
**HUGS** Sis

:sing:
But a bear likes to say it with a SLAP!
:sing:

lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on April 05, 2009, 04:03:01 AM
{{{HUGS}}}Sis
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Sis on April 05, 2009, 09:00:42 AM
Thank you! :bigcheese:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: BeccaBoo on April 07, 2009, 03:25:33 AM
Welcome! :bigcheese:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 20, 2010, 11:42:36 PM
*bump*

Just had ta do this for someone to remember.  :bigcheese:

:hypocrite:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 21, 2010, 12:14:45 AM
It was a good bump, lol, and as far as the topic goes, it is always a possibility, depending on who you are in relation to the guy...

Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 21, 2010, 01:15:04 AM
??

*is confused*


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TheGirl on May 21, 2010, 04:42:38 AM
same here John..

And its quite possible that this has been said already since I haven't read the whole thing :) ...

But lets just say I liked a guy..and he comes to me talking about another girl..what exactly would I be expected to think? If hes into HER...and telling ME about it ..well theres my answer.

That would be a complete...heartbreaking day of twitterpatedness ...lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 24, 2010, 06:17:54 PM
I didn't re-read the thread, John.  Just bumped it for the poll and the first page of stuff to remind/tell/prove to someone that guys don't always mean what you think they mean.  Now I probably need to go back and read it all again.  Hmmm...
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 24, 2010, 06:37:49 PM
Quote from: YooperYankDude on May 21, 2010, 12:14:45 AM
It was a good bump, lol, and as far as the topic goes, it is always a possibility, depending on who you are in relation to the guy...

Simply meant that if a guy is talking to a girl about other girls, it could mean something... or it could mean nothing at all, it depends on what the status of your friendship is at the time.

Are you just casual friends, or have you been best friends for a lonnnnggg time.

He may be using you as a sounding board because he doesn't want to just ask you what you think of the said girl.

Or he may be trying to get your reaction to what he is telling you, because he really is interested in you...


Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 24, 2010, 06:17:54 PM
I didn't re-read the thread, John.  Just bumped it for the poll and the first page of stuff to remind/tell/prove to someone that guys don't always mean what you think they mean.  Now I probably need to go back and read it all again.  Hmmm...

Guys dont, and neither do gals all the time either... both are relatively confusing at times... lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 24, 2010, 07:30:59 PM
I'm becoming aware of the fact that I rather like straightforwardness and lack of games.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 24, 2010, 08:06:55 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 24, 2010, 07:30:59 PM
I'm becoming aware of the fact that I rather like straightforwardness and lack of games.

*nod* Yup. Me too.

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 24, 2010, 08:13:36 PM
Now, THAT's a cool phrase, Lady Stacey..is it a condition you've experienced? Since becoming a member here?

Hmmm...


John  :waving:

Quote from: TheGirl on May 21, 2010, 04:42:38 AM
same here John..

And its quite possible that this has been said already since I haven't read the whole thing :) ...

But lets just say I liked a guy..and he comes to me talking about another girl..what exactly would I be expected to think? If hes into HER...and telling ME about it ..well theres my answer.

That would be a complete...heartbreaking day of twitterpatedness  ...lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 24, 2010, 08:20:48 PM
Quote from: SippinTea on May 24, 2010, 08:06:55 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 24, 2010, 07:30:59 PM
I'm becoming aware of the fact that I rather like straightforwardness and lack of games.

*nod* Yup. Me too.

:beret:

Me three... :grin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 24, 2010, 11:09:23 PM
Quote from: YooperYankDude on May 24, 2010, 08:20:48 PM
Quote from: SippinTea on May 24, 2010, 08:06:55 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 24, 2010, 07:30:59 PM
I'm becoming aware of the fact that I rather like straightforwardness and lack of games.

*nod* Yup. Me too.

:beret:

Me three... :grin:

Me four.

Can someone please enlighten freaky2? :smirk2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 24, 2010, 11:58:50 PM
If it's the right freaky2, he'll figure it out on his own soon enough.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 12:23:51 AM
:spitlaugh: Oh my poor dear Melody friend...

I shouldn't laugh. But I can't quite help it. ;)

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 12:31:40 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 24, 2010, 11:58:50 PM
If it's the right freaky2, he'll figure it out on his own soon enough.

The poor freaky2 friend... sometimes it is hard... lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 12:37:51 AM
Sooo... next time you're in a group (and he's there, too) casually start a conversation about the silly games people play in relationships, and how you really prefer straightforward and honest stuff. *grin* Mr Freaky2 SHOULD pick up on it... unless he's really Mr Clueless. ;)

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 01:29:34 AM
Quote from: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 12:37:51 AM
Sooo... next time you're in a group (and he's there, too) casually start a conversation about the silly games people play in relationships, and how you really prefer straightforward and honest stuff. *grin* Mr Freaky2 SHOULD pick up on it... unless he's really Mr Clueless. ;)

:beret:

Or just take a group of friends stargazing, and then walk off by yourself, and see if he follows...!  It has worked before...   :laughhard:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 01:54:51 AM
*stifles a howl of laughter*

:pound: Hush, you!! It wasn't intentional, and you know it! :pound:

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 02:39:16 AM
You're stating, on the record, that there was NO premeditation on your part, Lady Wooby?


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 02:40:24 AM
Quote from: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 02:39:16 AM
You're stating, on the record, that there was NO premeditation on your part, Lady Wooby?


John  :waving:

Correct. :P

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 02:50:03 AM
Quote from: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 02:40:24 AM
Quote from: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 02:39:16 AM
You're stating, on the record, that there was NO premedication on your part, Lady Wooby?


John  :waving:

Correct. :P

:beret:

Well, that is good, that we at least know he was in his right mind during this stargazing adventure...

We know he was "trippin", but at least it wasn't on any thing but love!


  :bigglasses: Yoop
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 02:53:02 AM
*groan* You two are just out to get me tonight, aren't ya? Hmph.  :pound:

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 03:05:08 AM
Quote from: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 02:53:02 AM
*groan* You two are just out to get me tonight, aren't ya? Hmph.  :pound:

:beret:

Nah, I'm not... you are already taken... I have rules about this kind of thing! :cool:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 03:06:16 AM
 :roll: I was so worried.

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 03:07:22 AM
Btw, Mr T... you just better watch it, 'cause when YOU are twitterpated, I'm SO gonna have fun with payback. :bigcheese: :hypocrite: :bigcheese:

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 03:11:32 AM
Quote from: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 03:07:22 AM
Btw, Mr T... you just better watch it, 'cause when YOU are twitterpated, I'm SO gonna have fun with payback. :bigcheese: :hypocrite: :bigcheese:

:beret:

:hypocrite: I would expect nothing less!   :thumbsup2: 

But don't expect to have fun with it anytime soon!  :cool:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 03:13:10 AM
Quote from: YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 03:11:32 AM
But don't expect to have fun with it anytime soon!  :cool:

:eyebrow: Uh huh. Famous last words... *chortle*

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 03:23:38 AM
Quote from: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 03:13:10 AM
Quote from: YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 03:11:32 AM
But don't expect to have fun with it anytime soon!  :cool:

:eyebrow: Uh huh. Famous last words... *chortle*

:beret:

Most likely they are... but for me, I am fairly certain of it... lol.

Gals are complicated and complex... and none of them will want to marry a unemployed missionary to child orphans in a foreign country... and if she does... she needs to go be examined!  LOL

Being unemployed by the way, doesn't mean poor... just means I don't make 60K a yr at the moment! :cool:

Don't know that I will ever make that much again, with where I feel God is taking me... but I don't need to... I am content and happy with what God has given me, and plan to use it for His work as much as possible...   :grin:

Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on May 25, 2010, 03:25:51 AM
*smile*

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 03:44:01 AM
Ah, friend Yoop, notice that She Who Was Once Mistaken For Ice Maiden does not threaten me with 'when I get twitterpated'? That's because she knows there is little hope in that departmen t for the Grumpyest of the Grumpye!


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 03:59:38 AM
Quote from: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 03:44:01 AM
Ah, friend Yoop, notice that She Who Was Once Mistaken For Ice Maiden does not threaten me with 'when I get twitterpated'? That's because she knows there is little hope in that departmen t for the Grumpyest of the Grumpye!


John  :waving:

LOL...

Well John... that is cause she knows that one day, I would actually like to be "Twitterpated" should a likely candidate come along...

I have no intentions of joining the "GOB"... no offense meant...

But I guess, we'll see what God has in mind... lol   :cool:


Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 25, 2010, 04:23:11 AM
The group discussion idea is a great one...too bad I didn't think of it yesterday at lunch. :smirk2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 04:42:16 AM
No offense taken.. I have joked before that I probably serve as a negative role model for our youth group..as in.. "you better get married after you grow up, or you could end up like..._brother John_,,,"


John  :waving:

Quote from: YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 03:59:38 AM
Quote from: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 03:44:01 AM
Ah, friend Yoop, notice that She Who Was Once Mistaken For Ice Maiden does not threaten me with 'when I get twitterpated'? That's because she knows there is little hope in that departmen t for the Grumpyest of the Grumpye!


John  :waving:

LOL...

Well John... that is cause she knows that one day, I would actually like to be "Twitterpated" should a likely candidate come along...

I have no intentions of joining the "GOB"... no offense meant...

But I guess, we'll see what God has in mind... lol   :cool:



Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TheGirl on May 25, 2010, 12:31:08 PM
Quote from: Newsman on May 24, 2010, 08:13:36 PM
Now, THAT's a cool phrase, Lady Stacey..is it a condition you've experienced? Since becoming a member here?

Hmmm...


John  :waving:

Quote from: TheGirl on May 21, 2010, 04:42:38 AM
same here John..

And its quite possible that this has been said already since I haven't read the whole thing :) ...

But lets just say I liked a guy..and he comes to me talking about another girl..what exactly would I be expected to think? If hes into HER...and telling ME about it ..well theres my answer.

That would be a complete...heartbreaking day of twitterpatedness  ...lol


No.. it seems as though I have escaped being twitterpated so far this year  :teeth:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 08:28:55 PM
Hmmm....I see...


John  :waving:

Quote from: TheGirl on May 25, 2010, 12:31:08 PM

No.. it seems as though I have escaped being twitterpated so far this year   :teeth:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 08:57:51 PM
Quote from: Newsman on May 25, 2010, 08:28:55 PM
Hmmm....I see...


John  :waving:

Quote from: TheGirl on May 25, 2010, 12:31:08 PM

No.. it seems as though I have escaped being twitterpated so far this year   :teeth:

Hmmm...   :reporter: on the investigator...
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 25, 2010, 11:22:42 PM
Mel: If all else fails, play a game or two of your own.  Talk about another guy.  Casually mention him.  Act kind of interested.  Ask freaky2 for advice.  *shrug*  As much as I don't like game playing, sometimes a guy wakes up a bit when a girl starts to sound interested in someone else.  It's happened before.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TheGirl on May 25, 2010, 11:28:40 PM
What?! Its only May and I reserve the right to become twitterpated in the future if it happens lol  :lol:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 25, 2010, 11:49:44 PM
I think I'm just going to nix the whole idea. I thought it MIGHT be something this time but I'm wrong. Again. So forget it. Who cares right?

I'm tired of all the trying. Ill just be happy like I am. I was before. :shrug:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 25, 2010, 11:51:31 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 25, 2010, 11:22:42 PM
Mel: If all else fails, play a game or two of your own.  Talk about another guy.  Casually mention him.  Act kind of interested.  Ask freaky2 for advice.  *shrug*  As much as I don't like game playing, sometimes a guy wakes up a bit when a girl starts to sound interested in someone else.  It's happened before.

Wow... RJ telling Mel to play the game she hates... hmmm...


Quote from: TheGirl on May 25, 2010, 11:28:40 PM
What?! Its only May and I reserve the right to become twitterpated in the future if it happens lol  :lol:

Hmmm...   :lol:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on May 26, 2010, 05:48:25 AM
Yeah.  I know.  I diid it a time or two...  not as a "game" but as a real conversation.  I was just being real.  Being myself.  And it turned out interesting when the guy saw me in a different light after I seemed to have someone else on my radar.  No idea how it works, but it just seems to.

Of course, like I said, though...  I'd MUCH prefer the straightforward approach.  A man seems SO much more masculine to me when he's straightforward and lacks in the games department.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: upcchris on May 27, 2010, 07:40:23 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on May 26, 2010, 05:48:25 AM
Yeah.  I know.  I diid it a time or two...  not as a "game" but as a real conversation.  I was just being real.  Being myself.  And it turned out interesting when the guy saw me in a different light after I seemed to have someone else on my radar.  No idea how it works, but it just seems to.

Of course, like I said, though...  I'd MUCH prefer the straightforward approach.  A man seems SO much more masculine to me when he's straightforward and lacks in the games department.

Amen...though I've experienced one time when the bloke was a little too straightforward...and I really wasn't interested....interestingly enough, I told him I fancied someone else...and I did at that point, and never saw the bloke again after that....which is a shame, 'cause I really wanted him to come to the Lord...not because I fancied him, but because I wanted to see him saved...too straightforward makes a gal uncomfortable.

The former thought is interesting...is a girl more interesting to a bloke if she's interested in someone else...does he see it as a challenge?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 27, 2010, 08:44:17 PM
Wow... she just used the words fancied and bloke in the same post...

Sorry, I find it awesome, cause those are not everyday words used in the US...   :biglaugh:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: upcchris on May 27, 2010, 10:56:08 PM
No worries :grin:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 28, 2010, 03:00:45 AM
Ok...so how about when you have been enjoying a guys company, and suddenly he has a "date" and he is being so secretive about it, and he won't tell ANYONE who it is with. And you know that it is with someone who isn't in church and you THOUGHT he was above dating outside of church. And in the meantime, he doesn't call, rarley texts, and when you are together he doesn't speak much either.

And just so you know...I have not asked him anything. I am mearly keeping my eyes and ears open and observing what I see on FaceBook, Twitter and IRL conversations with our other friends.

SO! What does THAT mean? Means I should just give up right? 
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 28, 2010, 03:04:12 AM
How do you know if he is going out with someone not in church?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: taco_harvell on May 28, 2010, 03:24:56 AM
Quote from: MelodyB on May 28, 2010, 03:00:45 AM
Ok...so how about when you have been enjoying a guys company, and suddenly he has a "date" and he is being so secretive about it, and he won't tell ANYONE who it is with. And you know that it is with someone who isn't in church and you THOUGHT he was above dating outside of church. And in the meantime, he doesn't call, rarley texts, and when you are together he doesn't speak much either.

And just so you know...I have not asked him anything. I am mearly keeping my eyes and ears open and observing what I see on FaceBook, Twitter and IRL conversations with our other friends.

SO! What does THAT mean? Means I should just give up right? 

That is a complex question Mel. I could answer it several ways. But, I think the best answer is to pray for him and about the whole situation. Right now he may not even know what he is doing, after all he is a guy and we have been known to make stupid decisions more then once. Usually when women are involved that's when we can prove how stupid we can be at times.

I think all the guys here who are honest will agree with me on that to a point anyway.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on May 28, 2010, 05:47:35 AM
Quote from: taco_harvell on May 28, 2010, 03:24:56 AM
That is a complex question Mel. I could answer it several ways. But, I think the best answer is to pray for him and about the whole situation. Right now he may not even know what he is doing, after all he is a guy and we have been known to make stupid decisions more then once. Usually when women are involved that's when we can prove how stupid we can be at times.

I think all the guys here who are honest will agree with me on that to a point anyway.

Yes... I can agree on that... and the rest of what he said too...
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: MelodyB on May 28, 2010, 09:09:15 AM
2 reasons Yoop, 1) if she was in church, he would not have a problem telling anyone who it is. And 2) the only "in church" ladies he knows, go to our church...he said that himself.

While he has had the Holy Ghost for awhile...he is still fairly new to full truth. 
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: lojack on June 06, 2010, 06:38:14 AM
Quote from: sunlight on November 17, 2008, 07:30:42 AM
yeah... i decided you cant count... :grin: glad you are alive and well!


You're right Sunlight, my fingers get to twitching when i start to count and it's all downhill from there!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: lojack on June 06, 2010, 06:40:11 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on November 17, 2008, 07:38:56 AM
*sigh*   :reaction:  WHY did you guys have to go and resurrect this disturbing thread!?!?!  :sadbounce:

*reads lojack's sig line*

Is it too late for a date?  lol  Or are you famous now?


LOL i just had to resurrect this just for you  :laughhard:, almost a 1 1/2 years later since i've posted in this thread! 
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on June 06, 2010, 08:12:10 AM
Quote from: lojack on June 06, 2010, 06:40:11 AM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on November 17, 2008, 07:38:56 AM
*sigh*   :reaction:  WHY did you guys have to go and resurrect this disturbing thread!?!?!  :sadbounce:

*reads lojack's sig line*

Is it too late for a date?  lol  Or are you famous now?


LOL i just had to resurrect this just for you  :laughhard:, almost a 1 1/2 years later since i've posted in this thread! 
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: lojack on June 08, 2010, 07:34:17 PM
I'm still not famous, there's still time!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on June 08, 2010, 09:29:10 PM
Hmmm...  There may be time for YOU.  Perhaps *I* am about to become famous, though.  :bigcheese:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on June 08, 2010, 10:01:35 PM
Quote from: RainbowJingles on June 08, 2010, 09:29:10 PM
Hmmm...  There may be time for YOU.  Perhaps *I* am about to become famous as a Lady Playa, though.  :bigcheese:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on June 08, 2010, 10:22:40 PM
*gives up and hits on John*

:pound:

If I'm going to get accusations, I may as well EARN them.

:pound: John again
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on June 09, 2010, 12:47:06 AM
Oo, la lah! :freaky2:


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TheGirl on June 09, 2010, 02:49:47 AM
Quote from: Newsman on June 09, 2010, 12:47:06 AM
Oo, la lah! :freaky2:


John  :waving:

John do you enjoy being hit on? lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on June 09, 2010, 04:25:27 AM
:freaky2: Why, yes, Dear...


John  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TheGirl on June 10, 2010, 02:41:12 AM
well okay then.... :pound: John ..there ya go..its the best I got :)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on June 10, 2010, 02:55:37 AM
:bustamove:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on June 10, 2010, 03:33:08 AM
Quote from: TheGirl on June 10, 2010, 02:41:12 AM
well okay then.... :pound: John ..there ya go..its the best I got :)

Quote from: Newsman on June 10, 2010, 02:55:37 AM
:bustamove:

:freaky2:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: brysco on October 25, 2010, 06:29:13 PM
If a guy talks about other girls, it means... nothing.?  :o
Context is key. If he said "I ran into Lisa at the grocery store. Haven't seen her in a while. She's doing well." MEANS NOTHING
If he said "I ran into Lisa at the grocery store. She's lost some weight. Her hair was different..." HE NOTICED HER. Lol.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on October 25, 2010, 08:34:09 PM
Haha! forgot there was evidence in this thread... LOL! Hope all the other Bobs read this one now!! Lol!

Gotta keep an eye on Newsman and his interactions with one TheGirl! Among other ladies he enjoys being hit on by!! lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Roscoe on October 26, 2010, 01:37:53 AM
Quote from: YooperYankDude on October 25, 2010, 08:34:09 PM
Haha! forgot there was evidence in this thread... LOL! Hope all the other Bobs read this one now!! Lol!

Gotta keep an eye on Newsman and his interactions with one TheGirl! Among other ladies he enjoys being hit on by!! lol
Don't worry, Yoop- I'm watching,LOL. He was being hit on by both RainbowJingles and TheGirl- and appeared to enjoy it!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on November 18, 2010, 06:34:18 AM
Quote from: five-oh on October 26, 2010, 01:37:53 AM
Quote from: YooperYankDude on October 25, 2010, 08:34:09 PM
Haha! forgot there was evidence in this thread... LOL! Hope all the other Bobs read this one now!! Lol!

Gotta keep an eye on Newsman and his interactions with one TheGirl! Among other ladies he enjoys being hit on by!! lol
Don't worry, Yoop- I'm watching,LOL. He was being hit on by both RainbowJingles and TheGirl- and appeared to enjoy it!

Thinking they were enjoying it as well! LOL!
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TheGirl on November 20, 2010, 04:57:56 AM
Thomas How'd you like to enjoy this :pound: ?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on November 20, 2010, 06:11:36 AM
Quote from: TheGirl on November 20, 2010, 04:57:56 AM
Thomas How'd you like to enjoy this :pound: ?

Are you hitting on me? Cause I think your "dear" might not like that... lol

:couch:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TheGirl on November 21, 2010, 07:57:27 AM
oh dear ...
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on November 21, 2010, 11:32:09 AM
Don't worry, dear (Stacey), I'll just hold Yoop responsible for stressing you so!


John/IBOB  :waving:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on November 21, 2010, 04:49:08 PM
Quote from: TheGirl on November 21, 2010, 07:57:27 AM
oh dear ...

Quote from: Newsman on November 21, 2010, 11:32:09 AM
Don't worry, dear (Stacey), I'll just hold Yoop responsible for stressing you so!


John/IBOB  :waving:

Another instance... hmmm...
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Roscoe on November 21, 2010, 06:56:47 PM
Quote from: TheGirl on November 21, 2010, 07:57:27 AM
oh dear ...

Now you've got her begging her "dear" for forgiveness and understanding. Way to go,YYD. :lol:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on November 21, 2010, 07:10:32 PM
Quote from: five-oh on November 21, 2010, 06:56:47 PM
Quote from: TheGirl on November 21, 2010, 07:57:27 AM
oh dear ...

Now you've got her begging her "dear" for forgiveness and understanding. Way to go,YYD. :lol:

:biglaugh:

Just trying help out...   :)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: TheGirl on November 23, 2010, 04:09:10 AM
What a help you are
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on November 23, 2010, 06:52:15 PM
From you Dimples... that is a compliment!  :)
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: kkay on December 27, 2010, 07:57:06 PM
I think it has been said by others, but I would say it depends what he says about the other girls. My boyfriend talks about girls he works with and his friends' girlfriends but it's usually something they've done or said that he tells me about. I like the fact  that he can tell me about these things because it shows me that he's not hiding anything  :thumbsup2: So...does he talk about other girls romantically or does he just say he saw them...or they did something interesting...?
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on March 14, 2011, 02:56:13 AM
Girls are confusing and distressing... lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: SippinTea on March 14, 2011, 08:27:21 PM
Thank you! *takes a bow*

;)

:beret:
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: upcchris on March 15, 2011, 02:55:40 AM
Quote from: YooperYankDude on March 14, 2011, 02:56:13 AM
Girls are confusing and distressing... lol

you've also just defined blokes in general.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Lynx on March 15, 2011, 03:11:37 AM
I'm not confusing, I'm confused!  Big difference upcchris.

I do think I have a lot more fun though.  If I were not permanently confused life would be a lot more boring.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: (R.I.P.) YooperYankDude on March 15, 2011, 11:07:17 PM
Quote from: upcchris on March 15, 2011, 02:55:40 AM
Quote from: YooperYankDude on March 14, 2011, 02:56:13 AM
Girls are confusing and distressing... lol

you've also just defined blokes in general.

I love that word! I really need to come to Australia so I can hear it in person when it is said! LOL... that or we need to do a GP skype call, with you on it... lol. The only thing better than a sweet southern accent is an Aussie or English accent...! LOL
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: upcchris on March 16, 2011, 01:40:28 AM
British people use that word too.....probably more so than Aussies.

LOL, I'm Australian born and bred. I say g'day, I use the words bloke and fancy instead of guy and like. I probably use some other Australian coloquialisms too, although I don't think my accent is recognizably Australian.

I think the bottom line as to why the opposite genders are confused by each other has a lot to do with vulnerability issues; to put your heart on the line makes you feel incredibly vulnerable - and no-one likes that feeling...so when either gender is completely straightforward with the object of their affection about the way they feel about them, they're putting a lot on the line, and always running the risk of rejection if the affection is not reciprocated.

To that end, very few are willing to take the risk - especially when they're talking to you about someone else they may like.

Just my 5c
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: EricShane on March 17, 2011, 02:38:39 AM
theres a brittish girl that works at the pet store and for so long I thought she was aussie! lol
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: RainbowJingles on September 25, 2012, 09:55:23 AM
Crazy thread.  *shaking my head*

I recall the phone calls from one particular gentleman when he simply called because he wanted to have someone to talk to...  to share ...  someone to listen to him talk about loss...  and about the wonderful life that he had enjoyed with the woman he loved that God saw fit to take Home to be with Him long before what seemed like her time.

And then I recall the evening he told me that it somehow went from needing to talk about her to just wanting to hear my voice...

:chairspinud:

My final analysis on this one: if he confides in you, he trusts you...  regardless of the topic.  And trust is a mighty good thing upon which to build a relationship.
Title: Re: If a guy talks about other girls... does it mean something?
Post by: Newsman on September 30, 2012, 10:00:34 AM
*like*