What would you do?

[kkay]

Question: Would you choose to remarry if your wife/husband died? Why/Why not?

[Melody]

well, let me start by saying it's a whole 'nother ball game if it actually happens, so it's a lot easier to say what we intend.

1Ti 5:11  But the younger widows refuse: for when they have begun to wax wanton against Christ, they will marry;
1Ti 5:12  Having damnation, because they have cast off their first faith.

I don't want to be that woman.

Paul said when we marry, we have to tend to our spouses, we are not truly free to just serve Christ.  He's right.  God forbid I ever have to face such a horrible circumstance, but I want to think that I would then be free to live for Jesus alone and not look to man again.

[mini]

My wife and I have talked about this.  She thinks if something ever happened to her, that I should.

I don't.

I found true love once, I don't know if I could ever find it again.

[Melody]

as a step child, I don't think I'd ever want to do that to my children if they were young either. 

[mini]

It would be my luck i would meet Cinderellas step mom.

:grin:

[Sis]

I got what I wanted in Stevebert. I'd sure hate to go back to finding frogs while lookin' for a prince.

Don't wanna go back to all that getting to know you jazz again. At this point, I don't think I ever would, but you never know what God might have in mind.

[MelodyB]

Exactly, you never know what God may have in mind for you.

I am not married now so I cant say, but I did wanna post in here and watch it.

[mvausey]

Unless God Himself planned otherwise, never again.  I don't think I can ever love a man the way I love my husband.

[M‡¢ĦÆŁ Ҝ]

Question: Would you choose to remarry if your wife/husband died? Why/Why not?

This is not exactly an easy question to answer.  It's not as if I have someone waiting in "reserve" for when my wife dies.  However, if the right woman were to come along after the death of my wife, I would not be opposed to remarrying.  I get a lot of pleasure and happiness from loving and spoiling my wife and with the passing of my wife, I would want to find someone else to love and spoil.

I have already made it clear to Arctic Rose that if I were to die, I would want her to find another man that can make her happy.  I love her too much now to bear the idea of her being alone the rest of her life.  Of course, the decision to remarry is all up to her, but I can only hope that she will find a good man to treat her right after I'm gone.

[nicolejoy]

I like MichaelK's post - it's really hard to say and to know... you never know WHAT will happen IF you're ever in that situation... I would hope that my husband would feel like he COULD marry again if it so happened like that - but obviously, there are issues when there are kids involved and step parents and all that... sometimes it just WORKS - sometimes, it doesn't...

I like marriage, I like being married... if something were to happen to my husband, I wouldn't like to have to be a single mother - but I wouldn't go out LOOKING for a guy either... but if someone were to come along and if it seemed like it would work with me AND my child/children, I wouldn't knock it back either... *shrugs*

[Envelope]

I have the whole "cinderella/prince charming" love story of a lifetime..............

I just don't think that there is anyone else in the world, that would love me the way my husband loves me!!!!  I have an AWESOME man!!!!!!!!

sharon

[mesipie]

and ttL he was willing to remarry after his wife died